I'm a guy... look at profile pic. I simply don't respect fellow men that act like that. I was raised to respect people based on their character, whether male of female.
And that is not striving to be better, it is making an excuse to facilitate acting in a negative manner. Perhaps a "real man" would better described as a human being with respect and some integrity. Perhaps with that we can leave the gender out of it so it won't be an excuse.
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