Little did she know that he's been watching her EVERY night, and she just happened to look extra nice.
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I got told by a customer at work just the other day that I'd be prettier if I smiled at him. This guy gives me the creeps and always has. He's old enough to be my father and is 250 lbs of muscle.
My boss doesn't agree that it was sexual harassment.
Honest question: Would it still feel like harassment if Ryan Gosling had said "Hey girl, show me a smile"? Just wondering.
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· 6 years ago
Don't really care who that is.
If it's someone trying to get me to smile because they legitimately care about me and want to see me happy, that's one thing. When it's someone I don't know well and they just want me to smile because it makes them feel good about themselves, they can shove off.
Yeah, but someone suggesting you smile isn't sexual harrasment.
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· 6 years ago
At worst it's annoying
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· 6 years ago
That's just the tip of the iceberg. He's made other creepy comments as well. He's a karate instructor that told me I need to sign up for his women's self defense class, because I'm 'just the right size to carry off.' And I'm 'not paranoid enough about it.'
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· 6 years ago
Please tell me he has a neckbeard and/or a fedora
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· 6 years ago
No, he's almost roid ripped. At least 250 lbs of muscle. Most of it upper body. Wears a tank top, bunch of tattoos, and a long mustache.
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Like what kind of moustache? Handlebar? Pornstache? Hulk Hogan moustache?
If he says it again, make a bigger frown face and don't say anything back. Although I don't think it is "sexual harassment" per say, it is someone trying to passive-aggressively control you because you are in a position where you cannot tell him to F off. It is a form of harassment that you wouldn't tolerate in your private life.
I mean, on any day, I'd get pretty annoyed if some random person tried to talk to me. Most people wouldn't compliment a guy's appearance out of the blue, especially a stranger.
So are you a-sexual? Or are you the only one who's allowed to harass others?
" Without provocation". By the logic of the second girl it means " do not flirt with me unless I flirt with you first" however, by the second girl logic, all forms of flirting are sexual harassment.
Seems a bit rigged.
I don't want a rando to walk up to me and start flirting. If it was a friend, sure, but if I haven't even seen your face before, then I'd want them to fuck off. And I definitely would not want to start a conversation with a random person either.
So, how does the second girl date? Is SHE the only one who's allowed to"harass" others?
This is coming from a bi sexual , liberal female, btw.
Bitches need to get a fucking grip on reality.
Thank you. I seem to be clueless as well.
By the logic of the second girl, all forms of flirtation are sexual harassment. I guess I can understand this logic from an a-sexual person, but other than that it really seems as if this girl ( by her own logic) is the only one allowed to harass others.
What kinda world do we live in that dating starts by walking up to a random person and flirting with them? Maybe if you were in a club or a bar, but in everyday life? I doubt that girl wants to flirt or be flirted with unless she knows that person well enough, or if there's at least reasonable context for it.
Uh, yes. Met my wife at a party. Before that I dated a woman I met in
a store. Before that I dated a woman I met in class. That’s kind of how it works.
My boss doesn't agree that it was sexual harassment.
If it's someone trying to get me to smile because they legitimately care about me and want to see me happy, that's one thing. When it's someone I don't know well and they just want me to smile because it makes them feel good about themselves, they can shove off.
I'm with the second post. Keep it to yourself. That's the new social landscape.
" Without provocation". By the logic of the second girl it means " do not flirt with me unless I flirt with you first" however, by the second girl logic, all forms of flirting are sexual harassment.
Seems a bit rigged.
This is coming from a bi sexual , liberal female, btw.
Bitches need to get a fucking grip on reality.
But that's just a guess. WTF do I know?
By the logic of the second girl, all forms of flirtation are sexual harassment. I guess I can understand this logic from an a-sexual person, but other than that it really seems as if this girl ( by her own logic) is the only one allowed to harass others.
a store. Before that I dated a woman I met in class. That’s kind of how it works.