How about unhealthy people just try their best to be healthy for THEMSELVES and others support them
Or you know, live your life, die at whatsoever age, who cares. If you choose to ''love yourself'' that way, you have it coming
Most try. But by the end of the day you'll probably see plenty of replies to this thread that basically boil down to "I don't like fat people and I'm weirdly obsessed with making sure everyone knows they suck." The body positivity movements started because it's hard to get yourself on the right track to health when every judgmental stranger with nothing better to do feels like it's their sworn duty to make you feel gross. Male and female, but women get attacked for it more often.
Im not in any way endorsing people who make overweight people feel awful about themselves, but at the same time if you get rejected enough times and given enough looks, maybe it'll motivate you to really make change. Don't get me wrong i'm not encouraging you to go make fun of them that's horrible, but there's always gonna be people who do. But as you said if you choose to love yourself as you are then you accept the consequences such as disease and an early death.
Literally nobody who uses the "their health" bullshit in their argument cares about the health of overweight people. That's just code to make "fat people deserve what they get" more acceptable to say out loud. People who are actually trying to love themselves as they are, usually are doing so because they either have tried to lose weight and failed miserably or are trying to get to a place mentally where they can start that VERY difficult journey. Most dramatic weight loss requires a full life overhaul, and so many people fail because instead of "you're valuable as a person" they get "maybe if you lost a little weight your life would be better/people would like you more." They don't need "hurr hurr, I'm not a doctor but OMG HEART DISEASE."
Honestly when I reject any guy it’s because of personality issues. All the “fat” guys I’ve rejected had put up crazy walls and thrown on weird quirks to cope and attempt to compensate for their appearance. Most of the time, they aren’t attractive quirks either. Just acting like a dude bro to channel them or something. If they’d just been themselves, things might have worked out.
I don’t care if you are fat. If I don’t personally know you, I won’t pretend to be concerned about your health. If you are going to turn yourself around, do it for yourself. I’m not here to guilt trip you. It’s your descision, just as it’s a smokers descision. And I understand that it’s difficult. People need to stop being an ass.
Did he comment something and immediately screenshot it? Why? What he's saying isnt deep. Both genders of fatties want to be loved for who they are. The difference lies in the fact that even in the 21st century the person doing the asking is mostly men. So fat men deal with rejection and fat women deal with hardly ever being asked out. Pick your poison.
drink more water and you will lose weight, if you're dehydrated the body saves all the water he gets for "worse" times. so drink enough and you'll lose weight
Or you know, live your life, die at whatsoever age, who cares. If you choose to ''love yourself'' that way, you have it coming