It’s almost as bad as when you tell someone that you have a boyfriend/girlfriend, and they’re like, “Wait, really?? YOU got a boyfriend??’ And they refuse to believe you because they think that you’re incapable of getting one.
Its even worse when they say "wait you're dating him? Really? Why? He's not cute/hot." I usually respond by "oh you think so? Last time I checked he's been with my for 5yrs while you can't keep one for a week. Yeah, you have my sympathy for your low standards."
But you can't just wait and have a relationship that lasts, you'll never know if the relationship will work unless you give it a try. Of course, obviously if you know beforehand that the relationship isn't go to work, then I agree that's a waste of time and heartache. Even if you believe that relationship will last, it may not. It's a gamble, you'll always have to go out on a limb hoping that the person will be "the one", whether they are or they aren't. Be choosy on who you date, but you won't know if the relationship will last until you take that leap of faith and date each other.
Yes but if the person were like 20 something and had 10 relationships that have gone to shit
They definitely have problems
Example: miss Taytay
Relationship should be something that you take seriously not hanging out and screwing each other for a month or so just to break up and right away jump to another person
Many choose to be single and many don't
But jumping non stop into many relationships without even putting efforts nor taking it seriously (cause if you had taken it seriously, you'd need time to heal when it ends and not just move on within a few days) is always a choice
And it's a dumbass one
What irks me is when friends ask for relationship advice and believe the one who's had 10+ relationships rather than the one who's been in one for 10 years. Then they get in bad relationships cause they believed quantity over quality.
They definitely have problems
Example: miss Taytay
Relationship should be something that you take seriously not hanging out and screwing each other for a month or so just to break up and right away jump to another person
Many choose to be single and many don't
But jumping non stop into many relationships without even putting efforts nor taking it seriously (cause if you had taken it seriously, you'd need time to heal when it ends and not just move on within a few days) is always a choice
And it's a dumbass one