rosalinas · 6 years ago
When I'm upset at my male crush or bf, I just go ''why can't I be gay and get rid of this dumdum''
And the other way around too
dr_richard_ew · 6 years ago
I had that feeling over our drama festival, where I thought I was wanting to be full on gay. However (and yes, I am being serious about this), one nice set of pants later and I was back on the bi bandwagon again.
I don't know what to recommend for you personally though. My best bet would be to relax for a bit and think about it later. No need to have all that wizzing around your mind while you're already stressed out. Go back to it with a clear head and try again. It may not be the best advice, but I hope it helps some
rwby_rose · 6 years ago
Shortly after I realized I'm bi,I came out to a friend of mine who turned out to be homophobic. During the time I was friends with her,I frequently wished that I was straight so there'd be less drama with her. Then shortly after our friendship ended I said "fuck that shit" and embraced who I am. Be proud to be bi,don't let anything or anyone crush that pride.
rosebud · 6 years ago
I'm like 85% gay. There are some girls who I love and i would like to date, but there's too much spaghetti in my pants for me to do that
unicycle · 6 years ago
These feelings are totally normal. Being bi means you exist in an in-between state, where you don't quite fit in with straight people yet you don't always feel a complete part of the gay community. So it's natural to desire increased membership in either group. But being bi is amazing and you should always try to be your truest self :)
deleted · 6 years ago
Thanks. It feels good to know that I'm not alone in this.
deleted · 6 years ago
Everyone has at least a few gay or straight thoughts from time to time
diyrogue · 6 years ago
I remember when I first realized I liked girls I thought I was gay and confided in a friend. She was like " okay cool " then two minutes later " my mom says I can't talk to gay people " and blocked me and avoided me in the Halls. BITCH HAD MY EXPENSIVE MARKERS TOO.
But now I like both and I'm in a relationship with a man so I'll never be truly accepted by either community.
parisqeen · 6 years ago
Yeah, I get like that sometimes. Mostly sometimes I wish I could be just straight or gay is when I encounter people who I fear will judge me, or those idiots who say "you're being greedy". I don't give a damn about it most of the time though but sometimes it gets to me and I have to sit down and just remind myself that I'm me and a good person regardless of who I decide to love. I want to be surrounded by people who appreciate ME and not my sexuality.
unicycle · 6 years ago
When I was young, still figuring out my sexuality, my boyfriend told me that I couldn't be attracted to girls because I was in a relationship with a guy. Now, I have a husband and friends who love and accept me. So it might take time, but eventually you'll be surrounded by people who make positive and loving contributions to your life.
kisnotundercover · 6 years ago
I don't
The moment I figured out i was bisexual I was pretty cool with it. I didn't have a moment when I wished I was one or the other. My friends have all been cool with it as well, albeit a little surprised when I first told them.
A lot of my friends have been super supportive and we're able to joke about it with each other as well as other friends of ours, so it's pretty chill.
deleted · 6 years ago
This is one million times better when I saw you!
Thanks for your input, Kassypoo
elizapancakes · 6 years ago
Yes!! It's super weird because sometimes I meet a girl and a guy that I both really like so then it's sort of like my brain has to choose one. It's tough.
fruit_salad · 6 years ago
Not really. Sometimes I wish I was one or the other cause I feel guilty when I go through phases where I like one more than the other. Like I'm faking it somehow?