rydler · 6 years ago
Me and my friend used to be like brothers, always joking with each other, teasing, goofing off, having fun. But I feel like he’s been pulling away recently, and I don’t want that to happen. I want to keep his as my friend. Help?
rosalinas · 6 years ago
Talk
Chitchat nonsense then ask him how he has bene lately that you don't hang out anymore or something like that
rydler · 6 years ago
I will. Thank you. Still open to more advice though.
unicycle · 6 years ago
Ask him if anything's going on that would cause him to be more distant. Tell him you feel like you're growing apart and you don't like it. If you want to be more subtle, you can say something like "I miss how much we used to hang out and joke around, why don't we do that anymore?"
rydler · 6 years ago
I will do that. Thank you
parisqeen · 6 years ago
Like the other suggestions, talk to him. Also consider that he may be pulling away because of something going on in his life and he just needs some space, let him know you're there if he needs anything or wants to talk. Other then that you may just have to wait it out until he changes or he tells you what's going on.
kouyaaotsuki · 6 years ago
Give him some space, talking isn’t always the answer for everyone
sublimegamer · 6 years ago
Or ask if you are the cause. Be open to their point of view and do not be overly defensive if they say you are the problem. You may need to improve yourself in order to make them feel more comfortable around you.
dr_richard_ew · 6 years ago
Tie him up
rydler · 6 years ago
Update. He had a project he was working on. So he was focused on that. All is good for now. Thank y’all!!
sublimegamer · 6 years ago
Yayy! That was a good outcome