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Finally someone said it 26 comments
dovedee · 15 weeks ago
I’ll be honest and say that I didn’t really read all of @guest_ comments but since I am a trans person not on the binary but still experiencing gender dysphoria I can at least explain what I know and how it works for me. So there’s different ways to classify yourself if you are trans. There’s the binary trans people who usually experience gender dysphoria (similar to body dysphoria but includes a bit more). These are usually the people who go for gender reassignment surgery although not all of them do for different reasons. Then there are those outside of the binary who can sometimes skip hormones and surgery to feel like themselves. Since non-binary people usually have to rethink the concept of gender the most they are more likely to defend the “abolish gender” position and i think the person in this post are of this variety. But! There has been a long history of connecting gender to sex so if you want to transition socially and mentally, doing so physically can usually help...
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It's always funny 2 comments
dovedee · 15 weeks ago
Haha dark
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>:) 10 comments
dovedee · 15 weeks ago
Exactly! Since I realized that I was an enby I’ve had to rethink a lot of gendered words and what I’ve found out is that bitch and ya boi have the same gender neutral energy to them.
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Komidee 2 comments
dovedee · 15 weeks ago
I work in tech support now and lemme tell you some people really are this stupid.
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>:) 10 comments
dovedee · 15 weeks ago
Men can be dumb bitches too :)
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Having a good time apparently 3 comments
dovedee · 16 weeks ago
I’d wager that game does the absolute opposite for stress.
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Took me a moment 6 comments
dovedee · 16 weeks ago
Awful. Just horrible <3
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*sqeek* 1 comments
dovedee · 16 weeks ago
The stranger doesn’t know where the floorboards creak. Unlike regulars
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I took a picture of a flower with a minimalistic approach 3 comments
dovedee · 16 weeks ago
Very nice, very clean
But she might be hot 1 comments
dovedee · 17 weeks ago
I once played a game where we all somehow agreed to simp for this one person who was nice. We called them the king and whatever until she told us she was a girl but that she doesn’t enjoy pet names like queen and princess, so she became the president. It was fun. Especially since her brigade consisted of one guy, two girls and a non-binary. The final game we played she became the imposter and oh dear the drama was beautiful.
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This is for you, in particular 2 comments
dovedee · 17 weeks ago
Today I didn’t get out of bed but that’s ok. Tomorrow I have another chance.
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Hard alcohol taste disgusting and beer is literally the worst thing 15 comments
dovedee · 17 weeks ago
Big dick energy is getting what you want and enjoying it for yourself because it’s your drink.
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Shard of N&oslash;K'ia, Elder God of Unbreaking 10 comments
dovedee · 17 weeks ago
How to summon a demon:
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Preach it from the hilltops 47 comments
dovedee · 17 weeks ago
I’m not always the best at expressing myself lol
Preach it from the hilltops 47 comments
dovedee · 17 weeks ago
Well thinking of what you have to gain and lose from this convo compared to your companion. You might say something that sound really offensive even if you don’t mean anything bad just because you and the other person have different experiences. Also wow you’re right my writing is wack as hell, it’s kinda hard to decipher. It’s good that you asked.
But yeah, that mainly why swish and Rosa reacted so strongly to your go comment (I think, I don’t know them and can’t read their minds). I’m sure you only meant that we shouldn’t just on a person from one accusation but the way you worded it it could have been interpreted as “randy might be sexualizing a minor but maybe the daughter is just being slutty.” Which seems like a stretch but victim blaming is a real threat to some women. This is why I thought you of comment wasn’t very thought out, the discussion about sexual abuse have made much more harmful points with the same words. Tell me if it’s still hard to understand.
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Preach it from the hilltops 47 comments
dovedee · 17 weeks ago
Of course I don’t believe in the mantra “believe (insert group)” because that’s never a very productive way of figuring out what happened but the positions and amount of power given to each side is going to play a big part.
Preach it from the hilltops 47 comments
dovedee · 17 weeks ago
I’m gonna be completely honest and say that while adding something thought-provoking to a discussion in hopes of challenging perceptions is usually good, I didn’t really think garlogs original comment was very thought-out. Not that I mean anything bad about garlog but just as they have the freedom to make I statement me and other are free to criticize it. When it comes to these kinds of to;it’s however one must always keep in mind the position you and the person you are talking to is. It’s the same kind of deal when centrists invite a homophobe and a gay man to discuss gay marriage. For one this is just a discussion against a perceived danger and for the other it’s a matter of if you are ever going to be allowed to express love. One side has much higher stakes. The same thing applies if randy was a real person. One might lose the privilege of visiting a certain part of the family, maybe even a bit of their reputation. The other side might face years of abuse.
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Preach it from the hilltops 47 comments
dovedee · 18 weeks ago
Not sure a convo about sexual abuse is the best venue for trolling, home-slice bread-slice.
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Preach it from the hilltops 47 comments
dovedee · 18 weeks ago
The classic “I was just trolling the entire time”?
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Preach it from the hilltops 47 comments
dovedee · 18 weeks ago
Mate, Randy isn’t a specific person. He is the embodiment of an issue where children are taught to change their attire to not catch pedophiles eyes instead of creating a support system that lets the child express themselves while also minimizing the chance of sexual harassment by early on setting clear boundaries. There is no additional information to know, the concept is clearly there. This card is an argument, not an accusation.
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Preach it from the hilltops 47 comments
dovedee · 18 weeks ago
On the other hand, yes your guest might feel uncomfortable with your daughter greeting them in leather lingerie but that’s on another level than just wearing shorts. Or just wearing shorts and a crop top. A woman’s body shouldn’t always have to be scrutinized for being too sexy, or not sexy enough. So while I understand and totally agree with your point about stealing, the mechanism of sexual crime is often a bit different.
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Preach it from the hilltops 47 comments
dovedee · 18 weeks ago
I see what you mean guest but in cases of sexual assault, setting clear boundaries when you suspect someone to be shifty could be lifesaving. More so than to “make yourself a less appealing target.” If we look at cases of sexual assault, most of the time the victim wasn’t wearing anything really revealing and even if they were that shouldn’t take away the ability to express yourself from 50% of the population. Telling uncle creepster that he can’t come over anymore does not only minimize the chance of your daughter getting harassed by a pedophile but also, with proper explanation, teaches your daughter to not be too polite to these kinds of people, no matter if it’s family or a close friend. Taking away the danger is not making the world seem like a fairytale, distancing yourself from potential harm is in most cases the best option women have against creeps. And someone who can express themselves and stand tall is a much more risky target for rapists, since they might report it.
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Be back in 10 2 comments
dovedee · 20 weeks ago
Man needs just a little sleep, I get it. Get that rest king.
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Dammit girl, let's talk 2 comments
dovedee · 20 weeks ago
Maybe she’s just not having a very good day and it has nothing to do with you. Perhaps being told to smile when you’re obviously not happy is irritating
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Ya'll going to get it! 5 comments
dovedee · 21 weeks ago
I think you can find the whole thing on YouTube. Beware though, it’s best watched drunk with friends.