Well, I wasn't expecting that, I'm happy to be proven wrong then!

Well said, I agree completely! I'd add little house repairs to the list as well, I think that's very important too.

Agreed, I have very thick and somewhat long hair so I always take it upon myself to pull it out of the drain. I'm used to it already and my boyfriend is squeamish so he probably wouldn't have the guts to do it anyway.

@bruh good point, I was gonna mention that as well, I just didn't want to start a whole philosophical thread here lol. By stating explicitly what should be among those values, you're preventing the person from fully creating their own values. However by telling them to create values of their own and stick to them, you're risking they'll create bad values for themselves. But since @garlog mentioned that those values should lead a person to virtue, one can imagine that learning from mistakes would be among them. Well, someone with my values and my definition of virtue would anyway, I don't know what a person with a different definition of virtue would say to that.

Agreed

Ok Dr. Peterson. (I'm joking of course, but your comment is pretty in line with his teachings)
But what if you find evidence that your values are bad or harmful to yourself or others?
I'm not saying live without values altogether, but maybe don't "stick to it" so fervently to the point of denying evidence or critique of said values.

Very much so. *shows middle finger to Anora*

Or maybe a screenshot from a tracking website saying that it's lost?
Almost got scammed on there too once. They gave me a tracking number of someone else's order in my country, so the entire time the tracking looked legit until the very last few days when purchase protection almost expired, when I realized it went to a different town after being sorted at the customs. I contacted the post office who told me the seller probably tried to scam me, and refunded the order.

Oh, lol. Yeah that's a good idea

What? The game looks and runs like garbage considering the time and money spent on its development, lmao

I have no idea what this is a reference to but I might

It was the opposite on my end.
Him: what's wrong?
Me: *is very specific about things he's not doing (mainly concerning housework which is exhausting to do everyday by myself with no help at all)*
Him: ok I'll do it. *proceeds not to do it ever, even when reminded about it for days on end and the apartment looks like a trash pile*
Rinse and repeat until I can't take it anymore and blow up, and he does the "i don't know what I did, you're getting mad over nothing" bs as if it was my fault
It was absolutely infuriating.