I hate it when people do this and post about it like its a special achievement. Especially when they're also being unfaithful or have gotten inaccurate information. That's just childish and stupid.
I don't think the point of the post is to be like hey guys I am psycho hahaha, but more of be careful because there are some psychos out there. Also I am not entirely sure why everyone is bagging on her and not the scum bag..... Why not both?
Was going to make a comment to say she is a jerk and this was too far. Has already been done several times.
The ONLY way I view this as OK is if YOU paid for it.
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· 10 years ago
Why don't you sell it and gave the money to kids in need. He will lose the playstation and you get to do a good action.
try to understand the frame of mind someone might be in this situation. is it the best thing to do? probably not.... my husband of 5 years whom i had supported through 3 deployments to Iraq screwed around on me, emptied our joint bank account while i was out of work and sent me the divorce papers in the mail. He didn't even have the balls to tell me to my face. i dismantled his Bowflex and threw out all the nuts and bolts. was it right? no. but it sure felt good at the time. i never thought i could be that petty but you never really know how'll you'll react until you're in it.
I agree sometimes it's really hard to control yourself in that situation. Yeah the chick was childish by posting it online but I think breaking it was a good and bad. (Hard to pick a word for that) I had a boyfriend of 5 years not a husband luckily because I'm sure my situation be worse... But he cheated that entire time and was emotionally abusive at times. So when the break up came finally I may have done some very shameful damage to him and my ex best friend who was sleeping with him and dating him... I will be honest and not make myself seem like a saint or whatever, I tried to calm down for 2 seconds then said fuck it and went wild. Betrayal like that is painful. That pain took me to a dark place for years and I'm now almost fully recovered. I feel happy again. But back then I had no happiness than doing what I did to see him hurt too. It's just human nature.
My exwife cheated on me twice, got knocked up and miscarried with one of them. What did I do? Not a damn thing.
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After she "moved out," we were still "married" and her family had hopes it was a phase that we could work through. She cheated a third time and got knocked up again... she was the one that had to explain it to her mother.
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Her mother had helped her finance a car, which she took away, then kicked her out of the house... Then her mother called me to apologize because she didn't understand the situation before.
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Sometimes karmic retribution sorts itself out.
True. And that is what happened to the guy in the end. The girl all I did to her was make her afraid to come back to our hometown because that would mean I tell her that I don't care anymore to her face. (She's been begging for forgiveness for years and I can't bring myself to it) the guy just lost his only true friends when they realized he was abusive when I told them the truth about the abuse and all. In the end, the girl he left me on valentines day for once had his child and they were going to get married but due to a violent outburst by him (again....) she took his kid and he's legally unable to see him again. His only first son. :/ I feel bad but at the same time he's the only person I HATE.
Also good to hear you controlled your emotions during the situation smitty. I wish I didn't yell or say the things I did so he and she suffer but I had to for myself. Karma is a bitch and I did get some back for it just like the 3 of them.
Smitty- I'm jealous. My now ex MIL blamed me for her son cheating, screwing us over financially 3 times, getting fired for forging legal documents, and for his abuse.
I get that it's cathartic and satisfying to do stuff like this, and I even think some people deserve it. Looking back, I'm really glad I didn't do anything like this. It would have come back to bite me.
Karma is the best justice.
It's easy to judge and say how wrong this is.. but before we get all high and almighty, who knows what any of us would do in the same situation. The girl's been hurt. This is how she reacted to it. All I can say is, hope I'm never on the receiving end of this..
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· 10 years ago
Personally, I don't see committing to not doing illegal acts as being high and mighty, but that's just me.
It's not that, per se... it is being a better person, keeping a level head and taking the high road in a situation.
To "lose one's shit" is a perfectly normal human reaction, but there can be consequences for doing so.
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To keep your composure in a bad situation shows that you can be a better person than your adversary.
Excellent idea. I'm partial to your particular brand of evil - however, it would have been much more effective had it been done the first time he cheated.
It seems like a waste of a good gaming system.
I would maybe just take it?
That would still be bad, but at least I'd be able to give it back to him when I would be less angry at him.
My husband, who I have two children with and have been with for ten years, cheated.
What did I do? Talked about it privately, forgave him, worked through it. What did he do? Worked on earning my trust back. What would be the point of acting a fool?
The ONLY way I view this as OK is if YOU paid for it.
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After she "moved out," we were still "married" and her family had hopes it was a phase that we could work through. She cheated a third time and got knocked up again... she was the one that had to explain it to her mother.
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Her mother had helped her finance a car, which she took away, then kicked her out of the house... Then her mother called me to apologize because she didn't understand the situation before.
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Sometimes karmic retribution sorts itself out.
Also good to hear you controlled your emotions during the situation smitty. I wish I didn't yell or say the things I did so he and she suffer but I had to for myself. Karma is a bitch and I did get some back for it just like the 3 of them.
I get that it's cathartic and satisfying to do stuff like this, and I even think some people deserve it. Looking back, I'm really glad I didn't do anything like this. It would have come back to bite me.
Karma is the best justice.
To "lose one's shit" is a perfectly normal human reaction, but there can be consequences for doing so.
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To keep your composure in a bad situation shows that you can be a better person than your adversary.
I would maybe just take it?
That would still be bad, but at least I'd be able to give it back to him when I would be less angry at him.
What did I do? Talked about it privately, forgave him, worked through it. What did he do? Worked on earning my trust back. What would be the point of acting a fool?