Also, that doesn't mean act like a creep either
8 years ago by boomboombam · 2074 Likes · 24 comments · Popular
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thepacifist
· 8 years ago
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I only have two modes. Friend and creep. Not always mutually exclusive.
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chu
· 8 years ago
I have one mode. Friendly creep.
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fire_is_hot
· 8 years ago
Creepily friendly? Is that also a mode?
frostbite
· 8 years ago
If you want to establish that you don't want to be in the friend zone, flirt a little.
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chu
· 8 years ago
Define "flirt". It's really subjective.
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frostbite
· 8 years ago
Well, something you know a friend definitely wouldn't say. I can't really think of any examples right off the top of my head.
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thepacifist
· 8 years ago
"Let's have sex."
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frostbite
· 8 years ago
Yes
funsubstanceuser
· 8 years ago
To flirt means to risk something, show yourself. Rather than agreeing to everything s/he says, make your own point. Be explicit, don't say s/he is nice when you mean hot. Trying to avoid rejection is an expressway to friendzone. You're not put in friendzone, its usually your own choice.
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chu
· 8 years ago
Aha! there's the rub! I'm not a risky person. I take calculated risks and if my relationship with a person *could* be at all compromised it's not worth it.
theodorerex
· 8 years ago
Well I don't know how you flirt but I use the buddy the elf flirtation system. I walk up to a girl and say "hi my name's cole, smilings my favorite."
chu
· 8 years ago
If I did that to someone I'd probably find myself with a broken neck and a knife in my butthole.
theodorerex
· 8 years ago
Well, it has worked for me
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abel_hazard
· 8 years ago
My husband asked me out pretty much the minute he found out my then-boyfriend and I weren't exclusive. We'd been friends for about two years at that point, but once he knew that I was looking, he made it clear both that he was interested, and that he wouldn't just disappear if I wasn't interested.
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chu
· 8 years ago
Get him on here and tell us what he said.
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abel_hazard
· 8 years ago
He says it was ten years ago and he's got no idea, all he remembers is praying his legs didn't give out.
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deleted
· 8 years ago
that's so cute!
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garlog
· 8 years ago
Still sucks.
lexilove
· 8 years ago
Sometimes and you all can hate me if you want but sometes people think that being nice atomatiy gives them a resltionship. It's the friend zone/ being in a relationship with me is not my way of repaying you to be overly nice.
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guest
· 8 years ago
I think perhaps they think they are flirting (expressing romantic interest) by being nice. It's not the same and yes, there are those in the friendzone who put themselves there. These guys simply need a lesson in flirting.
ohmajeez
· 8 years ago
Orrrr it's because women aren't obligated to sleep with you just because you're interested in sleeping with them.
garlog
· 8 years ago
The picture is making the assumption that the majority of it's audience are people who don't know how to flirt and blame the girl for putting them in the friend zone. It's about why she puts you in the friend zone, not whether she's obligated to or not.
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man
· 8 years ago
actually its cuz 'nice guys' are just overweight socially inept fools who think they deserve sex if they open a door for a chick
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theodorerex
· 8 years ago
I don't know about sex, but a friendly smile is always nice.
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