In that case there's the option to give your kid up for adoption. Or if you can't handle the pregnancy, it's sad but abortion also exists as an option. I agree with this user, if you can't afford a kid don't fucking have any
Abortions are also expensive, and adoption can be emotionally devastating. And the child probably isn't any better off on foster care if they aren't placed with a family.
Raising a child is infinitely more expensive and emotionally taxing. You can buy bulk, high-end condoms for 40 cents each, allowing you to continue only fucking up your life.
True but some people have a plan or a job and plan to have kids. Others have nothing and don't take care of themselves and still plan to have kids or don't use protection
If that would not affect their offspring then it's fine
Cause to me we reproduce and try to keep the best gene going than the weak one
So if it might have any affect on the kids, they should try adoption
Btw I mean best gene in both appearance and intelligence
some ppl don't have access to birth control or did not have adequate sex education (almost half of the country doesn't require high schoolers to have proper sex education)
You know which people don't know sex=babies? People who don't think it will happen to them. Not having access to birth control means you should not be having sex. There are no excuses for not understanding the results of sex, only delusions. Voluntary unprotected sex is a choice, a choice that will only end in babies and/or STDs.
A message to MY COUSINS GOD THEY DON'T USE BIRTH CONTROL AND THEY LIVE OFF THE GOVERNMENT'S MONEY FUCKIN MEXICAN STEREOTYPES ARE FULFILLED THROUGH THEM
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Gov't cheddar is just stolen from everyone else, your cousins are living off of you.
So only the wealthy should have kids. NO! We are working class. We have jobs, but no money. Everything goes to pay bills. So we shouldn't have had the 3 intelligent, beautiful children we have? Think not!
And how do you afford your '3 intelligent, beautiful children'
Kids are expensive
This is about having the ability in taking care of the kids in every way
And money is a part of it
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How can you NOT agree to that?
*claps aggressively*
She just basically said that she has enough to get by and you don't have to be rich to have kids
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You go rebel, as long as your kids are happy with what they need and they get their education and the love they deserve then you're doing great.
Rich people make OTHER people do the hard work for them, there's no fun in that, it takes the piss out of everything
Working for your money is so much honorable than sitting down waiting for it to come to you, because then you feel accomplished at the end of the day :)
You've grossly over simplifying the issue. Even middle class families struggle to afford the cost of raising children. You are saying only those who are well off deserve the happiness of having children.
Yeah I disagree also, I lost my job while I was pregnant for my son but had money saved up and when he was a month old I got right back up and went to work...things happen unexpectedly but kids are a blessing and shouldn't suffer
I'm happy about your decision with your son, it takes a strong person to fight that
Of course your situations are different. I am sorry and I hope it is foing great for you now. However, I do know people that could have waited a little more to make their lives easier and planned not to wait :/
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Yeah I had my son at 24 but it wasn't hard, just a little scary but my situation is better. I have 2 kids now, my son is 7 and I have a 3 year old daughter and I wouldn't change my life if it had to be without them.
To me, it's not supposed to be easy in the beginning because you'll never know what it feels like to be at peace...that's just an opinion based on my experience
I think people should have kids from the age of 25 to 35
With good health (both physically and mentally) and stable finance
Cause to me we reproduce and try to keep the best gene going than the weak one
So if it might have any affect on the kids, they should try adoption
Btw I mean best gene in both appearance and intelligence
But yeah I suppose?
I fixed it :)
Don't be sorry, the truth should hurt her more
Kids are expensive
This is about having the ability in taking care of the kids in every way
And money is a part of it
*claps aggressively*
Rich people make OTHER people do the hard work for them, there's no fun in that, it takes the piss out of everything
Working for your money is so much honorable than sitting down waiting for it to come to you, because then you feel accomplished at the end of the day :)
I'm happy about your decision with your son, it takes a strong person to fight that
To me, it's not supposed to be easy in the beginning because you'll never know what it feels like to be at peace...that's just an opinion based on my experience