How much are their hands and arms moving?
If it's just a little, with small, gentle gestures... everything's fine.
But if there's a lot of waving about, like flapping and aggressive gesturing... time to leave the house. Go down the street to a cafe for an hour or so.
nah, I've got Italian family. Casual discussion involves screaming and slamming fists on the table and (If the discussion is getting real interesting) throwing shit. (But if something like dishes or cups or silverware gets thrown around, it's probs best to leave for a bit, because shit's going down.
If it's just a little, with small, gentle gestures... everything's fine.
But if there's a lot of waving about, like flapping and aggressive gesturing... time to leave the house. Go down the street to a cafe for an hour or so.