Whatever ethnicity she is, if she has a body and a face like hers, I’d be pretty darn proud of him. And if she has a brain to match, ‘so, when’s the wedding’ would be the first words out of my mouth.
The most racist thing a white girl ever told me is that nobody likes black girls not even black guys. To be blunt, she had a thing for black guys that I never let her live down. I was actually 'talking' to a black girl at the time even if it never progressed.
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Oh my God, where can I find black women like that!?
You won't find any chocolate in me, senpai. I'm doing by best to be as pale as possible to the point of considering buying expensive Chinese products to do so. My ass isn't bleached yet, but I'll probably start when I have an excuse to be spending that much money on $100-200 worth of booty cream. Not sure why I said that outside some recent comments I've had over beauty lol.
As long as I don't see even one hint of any of the issues my kid's mother has I don't care if he brings home a freaking dodo. First time I see any familiar behavior I will END the relationship for them.
Then make sure to put the kids in therapy to help work on the issues! (Genuinely serious) you’re in the same position I am just different role. I understand what you mean.
I just want better for my kid, he has suffered enough already and he's not even eight yet, he doesn't deserve to be treated like shit by anyone, he will NOT know the fear of going to sleep and wondering if a knife is waiting to find a sheath between his ribs NOT WHILE I BREATHE! And therapy will not fix abuse, it can scar the wounds but never truly fix them. Abusers are unforgivable.
Therapy does indeed help greatly as long as the person is willing. I went to therapy for six months as a teenager without telling my therapist anything simply because I didn't want therapy. She eventually tried sending me, someone who sees religion as inherently harmful and is very openly atheistic, to a Christian's Childrens' Home (Essentially an orphanage where the kids typically have parents). She almost succeeded actually until my mother came in last second (I was living with my dad) to stop that and bring me to an abusive home. I honestly don't know which would have been worse. I'm actually wondering if trying to send me there was illegal actually, but kids seem to be protected from their humans rights in America.
I actually enjoyed the first time a doctor sent me to a loony bin. It was fun, I got kissed by a cute girl, I learned to draw anime stuff, and I got away from my stepfather. I was only eightish, but I loved it for the couple of months I spent there.
I'm in therapy for the crap I have experienced in my life, and yes while it helps with dealing with the self doubt and blame, the other emotional issues, it will never change the fact that those things occurred, and that I may have been a very different person if they hadn't. although some positive things did come from those experiences, (my child, my fiercely protective nature, and other things.) I mean if I hadn't been abused by my uncle at a month shy of 8 years old I wouldn't have attempted suicide and fell into a lasting depression, I'd have likely enjoyed my childhood and had much better confidence. If I hadn't dated my kid's mother and dealt with what she did, I wouldn't lose my shit every time I see a serrated blade knife, but I also wouldn't have my amazing little child, so the good came with the bad.
My youngest baby brother is married to his childhood sweetheart and she is black as night. She also is smart funny a hard worker for their little family and an awesome sister in law.
Unlike 2 sister inlaws I have who are two total bitches and they are both white. They both are complete assholes. One when I was just in my teens asked her if she wanted to be friends with me and she said she would love to be and that she liked me. Not even a week goes by and I hear her tell my brother that she hates my guts and wish I was never born. So I stormed up to her and called her a lying bitch. She said what did I lie about. So I said you said you liked me but u lied because you are a fucking bitch.
The second acted all nice but kept bitching about my brother to me even though I just met her that day. Than my kid was just minding her own business and she came in yelled at me and said to my kid who was 8 to "SHUT THE FUCK UP YOU LOUD MOUTH LITTLE FUCK" she actually said that. Seriously this woman used to take care of toddlers at a daycare. But got fired. Guess why. She claims they didn't like her but they are in my hometown which is a small town everyone talks. First she tossed a 4 yr old boy by his leg on to a beanbag chair than she yanked a girl off the ground by her arm almost pulling her arm out of socket. That is what got her fired.
She could of gotten another job but thank God the owner of the day care was the mayor's wife so she will NEVER work in day care again.
I have 1 more sister in-law but she is nice as well.
I actually enjoyed the first time a doctor sent me to a loony bin. It was fun, I got kissed by a cute girl, I learned to draw anime stuff, and I got away from my stepfather. I was only eightish, but I loved it for the couple of months I spent there.
Unlike 2 sister inlaws I have who are two total bitches and they are both white. They both are complete assholes. One when I was just in my teens asked her if she wanted to be friends with me and she said she would love to be and that she liked me. Not even a week goes by and I hear her tell my brother that she hates my guts and wish I was never born. So I stormed up to her and called her a lying bitch. She said what did I lie about. So I said you said you liked me but u lied because you are a fucking bitch.
She could of gotten another job but thank God the owner of the day care was the mayor's wife so she will NEVER work in day care again.
I have 1 more sister in-law but she is nice as well.