How she had made you feel?
Has he even thought of how he has made everyone else feel? Disgusted!
Draw hentai, read hentai, watch hentai but do not bring it to real life.
Fun fact: hentai (and other stuff like it) actually programs people to molest or rape children because it normalizes something that should not be normalized. People watch it and reward themselves powerfully for indulging in a deviant fantasy. Once a fantasy/reward pattern is in place, people will be much more likely to transition their deviant thoughts into deviant behavior in real life.
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The safer thing to do would be to transition to other fantasies. If you can't, talk to a therapist and they will be happy to help.
Well, kinda. "Ageplay" is a really big trigger for some sex offenders (NOT for actual pedophiles - pedophilia is a totally different affliction/psychopathy with much more nasty roots and different triggers). Before offending, convicted statutory rapists report they immersed themselves in these types of age fantasies. They don't know they're programming themselves to offend, often until they actually commit an offense.
Dude, anything can influence anyone. A decent human being is not going to commit heinous acts just because they read it in a book, or saw it in a movie, or played it in a game. Horrible people will do horrible things whether they get ‘ideas’ for it somewhere else or not.
Fiction is not reality.
True - some people are wired wrong and need to be put away forever. Some people are normal and weird crap like this never occurs to them.
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I'm saying SOME people, in the middle of this spectrum, cope with weird thoughts in different ways. If they do it in an unhealthy way, they could ruin someone's life with a sexual assault. If they cope in a healthy way, they would have a good chance of going through their lives and not victimizing anyone. My position is it's better to educate people that deviant fantasies (ie hentai) can and do lead people from the middle of this spectrum toward deviant behavior and increase their chances of hurting someone.
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Does that make sense? I feel like most people's position on rape is to bury their heads in the sand and hope it doesn't happen to them. All society seems to do is ratchet up punishments, even though it's not helping. I am optimistic if people in the middle just knew deviant fantasies lead to disaster, some would steer clear...
...and overall rates of sex assault victims would drop. Does that make sense, or am I insane? I've been working on this very seriously for a while now. I've been talking to a handful of local legislators and district attorneys and they give me mixed, but usually positive, input. I'm curious what you think, though. I think I have something important to share but I don't want to get murdered by people who think I'm somehow supporting or validating sex offenders.
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Jasonmon - where are you getting your information? Most people who commit sex crimes would have done it whether or not they were exposed to porn
Dr. Stinson and Dr. Becker released a book called "Treating Sex Offenders" in 2018. There's another book by Dr. Morris and Dr. Levenson called "Road to Freedom," from 2002. Each book extensively cites other published papers.
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It's not exposure to porn, it's the way certain people can key in to deviant elements: sadists can see people enjoying sadistic behavior and smother their empathy and sharpen their deviance, potential child molesters can see young-looking girls enjoying sex and convince themselves it's okay, flashers and exhibitionists can look at porn of people getting flashed and feeds their psychosis that people secretly want to be flashed
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Porn is fine, mostly. It's certain people who have mental issues that aren't fine. One of my big goals is to get the word out that porn, like anything used wrong, can push someone over the edge. The problem is that some people know they are attracted to certain deviant behaviours and they immerse themselves in that type of pornography ...
...but it has the opposite effect on their psyche. You're not "blowing off steam" by looking at that particular porn, you're programming yourself to commit a sex offense. Just knowing that would hopefully get some people to back away from the edge and find the second-best thing that turns them on. In no time, that'll be programmed as the number one thing and whomever they may have victimized down that other path is saved and everybody wins.
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My other big goal is to train people on how to develop healthy, effective coping mechanisms (based largely on the books I listed above) to have happy lives. Happy, well-adjusted people don't commit sex offenses.
Hold up...
None of this sounds right
Has he even thought of how he has made everyone else feel? Disgusted!
Draw hentai, read hentai, watch hentai but do not bring it to real life.
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The safer thing to do would be to transition to other fantasies. If you can't, talk to a therapist and they will be happy to help.
"You there, you're a convicted pedophile, tell me, do you watch hentai?"
Fiction is not reality.
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I'm saying SOME people, in the middle of this spectrum, cope with weird thoughts in different ways. If they do it in an unhealthy way, they could ruin someone's life with a sexual assault. If they cope in a healthy way, they would have a good chance of going through their lives and not victimizing anyone. My position is it's better to educate people that deviant fantasies (ie hentai) can and do lead people from the middle of this spectrum toward deviant behavior and increase their chances of hurting someone.
,
Does that make sense? I feel like most people's position on rape is to bury their heads in the sand and hope it doesn't happen to them. All society seems to do is ratchet up punishments, even though it's not helping. I am optimistic if people in the middle just knew deviant fantasies lead to disaster, some would steer clear...
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It's not exposure to porn, it's the way certain people can key in to deviant elements: sadists can see people enjoying sadistic behavior and smother their empathy and sharpen their deviance, potential child molesters can see young-looking girls enjoying sex and convince themselves it's okay, flashers and exhibitionists can look at porn of people getting flashed and feeds their psychosis that people secretly want to be flashed
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Porn is fine, mostly. It's certain people who have mental issues that aren't fine. One of my big goals is to get the word out that porn, like anything used wrong, can push someone over the edge. The problem is that some people know they are attracted to certain deviant behaviours and they immerse themselves in that type of pornography ...
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My other big goal is to train people on how to develop healthy, effective coping mechanisms (based largely on the books I listed above) to have happy lives. Happy, well-adjusted people don't commit sex offenses.