After they say there is nothing they can really do

In scary situations you call the ghostbusters, not the police

Even though you called as things were escalating, and they said they'd be there as soon as possible.
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Then afterwards they tell you they didn't knock on the door or call because the aggressor was armed and they didn't want any of their officers to get hurt.

Where in heck is this? The police have come and followed up any of the few times they've had to be involved on my end

My favorite cop story: a woman was drugged and raped at the hotel I worked at. When the cop came he asked the victim "what did you do to make them do this?" My coworker flipped out and demanded to see his supervisor, who proceeded to arrive 7 hours later. I was working overnight that day and had to wait till noon before I could leave.