Believe whatever makes you happy, I'll do my own thing thanks. Had plenty of hypercritical 'better than me' people in my life, especially the ones that say me and my kid are hell bound because I didn't marry his 'mother' without even knowing she's an abusive cuntwaffle!
One thing I've learned over the years - religion doesn't create assholes. People who are assholes will use any excuse to be an asshole. Like veganism, feminism, etc. People will abuse anything for their agenda.
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And the next time someone says that to you tell them as far as you know she's still single, and if they're so concerned for the state of her soul they're more than welcome to go marry the bitch themselves. You'll be here focusing on being a good father.
As far as I know/care the only relationship she needs is with a psychiatrist/ padded cell/ restraint jacket, instead I'm the one seeking therapy every two weeks to keep from losing my shit every time I see a certain kind of knife, which is far more often than I would like! Last comment I got from a nosy 'moralist' I just quipped back that by their opinion they'd prefer I have an early death married to an attempted murderer than a long happyish life as a single father.
As if all religions are the same, and produce the same cultures
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And the next time someone says that to you tell them as far as you know she's still single, and if they're so concerned for the state of her soul they're more than welcome to go marry the bitch themselves. You'll be here focusing on being a good father.