lol. That was gold and they walked right in.
But for serious- you totally might find your wife or husband or… whatever… any of those places, and gyms and coffee shops etc. aren’t always the best places to find partners- especially because a lot of people are trying to just do their business those places and not looking for advances from strangers. Statistically you’re best bet at finding a stable long term partner is either someone you meet through mutual friends or someone you meet in the course of your activities and hobbies. People with shared interests, lifestyles, values, and peers. If you don’t like coffee or frequent coffee shops, a coffee shop may not be the place for that. Of course- love is full of statistical anomalies. Wide age differences, language and culture gaps, across class and politics and all manner of divides. Take care of yourself, build the life you want to have for you independent of family and romance- the home you want and the career you want and the budget
You want, the pets you want and the skills you want etc. do that and stay open to live or connections, maybe try new things once in awhile and get out sometimes wether that is a friends house or classes or mixers or conventions or whatever might interest you or make an interesting experience. Keep up your grooming and hygiene and health, and live your life. Your choices will tend to return to you the opportunities they create, and if you aren’t liking to opportunities or types of people presented, try some new things out! It’s simple on paper, can be hard in reality. Just know that things take time and luck. Luck is where preparation meets opportunity. In other words- get yourself and your life together as best you can so you are ready when an opportunity comes, and give yourself opportunity to meet people you might get along with. From there- it might not always be exactly what you thought you wanted or it would be- have standards but don’t let your preconceptions and labels stop you
But for serious- you totally might find your wife or husband or… whatever… any of those places, and gyms and coffee shops etc. aren’t always the best places to find partners- especially because a lot of people are trying to just do their business those places and not looking for advances from strangers. Statistically you’re best bet at finding a stable long term partner is either someone you meet through mutual friends or someone you meet in the course of your activities and hobbies. People with shared interests, lifestyles, values, and peers. If you don’t like coffee or frequent coffee shops, a coffee shop may not be the place for that. Of course- love is full of statistical anomalies. Wide age differences, language and culture gaps, across class and politics and all manner of divides. Take care of yourself, build the life you want to have for you independent of family and romance- the home you want and the career you want and the budget