I will admit there are situations that require violating a person's bodily autonomy, such as when someone requires medical treatment but is unable to consent.
The argument about childbirth I find a dishonest straw man argument since no one ever would try to kill the child during labour, the whole premise for that is to keep the child alive.

Yeah, I usually end those arguments by proclaiming that anything done with a tool is artificial and fake, and the only true art is literally scraped tooth and nail from the bare rock.

Merriam Webster defines fascism as
"a political philosophy, movement, or regime (such as that of the Fascisti) that exalts nation and often race above the individual and that stands for a centralized autocratic government headed by a dictatorial leader, severe economic and social regimentation, and forcible suppression of opposition"
and/or
"a tendency toward or actual exercise of strong autocratic or dictatorial control"
I fail to see how absolute bodily autonomy for the individual can fit anywhere in that.

That was obviously wrong, but this is for sure the real one.

I'm not being disingenuous. I'm literally quoting the Oxford dictionary.
What you're describing is very much having a feeling. You may refer to your feeling as a fact but that doesn't change anything.
The word pronoun does not have an LGBTQI connotation, except for in your mind, it is simply the word for how language gender people. The reason you think so is because the conservative right has weaponized the word by twisting it's connotation to mean "something gay and probably a paedophile".

Connotation
an idea or feeling which a word invokes for a person in addition to its literal or primary meaning.
Pronoun
a word that can function as a noun phrase used by itself and that refers either to the participants in the discourse (e.g. I, you ) or to someone or something mentioned elsewhere in the discourse (e.g. she, it, this ).
Basically you're saying you "have a feeling" pronouns mean something that it doesn't actually mean, because the conservative right has politicised the word to make a scapegoat of the approx 1-2% of the population that would prefer to choose their own. Am I close?