rosebud · 7 years ago
First of all, congrats.
Secondly, there's this girl who I really like and we can call her Sally.
Our two mutual friends, Phil and Janice, started dating last week.
I want to ask out Sally but I'm worried she'll say no, but I feel like we both like each other. What should i do?
chilledtothebone · 7 years ago
I'd say, ask her out. But first, how does she act around you? What makes you believe she likes you? I need some information so I can try to help.
I should hopefully know based on what she's like around you if she's giving you the right signs, being an ex-girl-in-crushing.
dr_richard_ew · 7 years ago
I am in love with one of my best friends, and she has a boyfriend who is absolute garbage. I'm hoping they'll break up so I can be there to treat her right, unlike his sorry ass who doesn't give two shits about her
chilledtothebone · 7 years ago
I wish you the best of luck. Does she realize that her boyfriend is terrible? If she isn't comfortable with him, maybe you could be there to give her the support she needs in getting out of a bad relationship.
dr_richard_ew · 7 years ago
She does, but she likes him too much to leave the relationship. Which makes me very sad
dr_richard_ew · 7 years ago
If he does hurt her though, emotionally or physically, I will fucking beat the snot out of him until his head is nothing but a smear on the ground. It'll be easy, because he apparantly hates me just as much as I do him
rosebud · 7 years ago
Well, she's always smiling around me. She's the girl who lended me the first Harry Potter book and I lent her my first Narnia book.
Every time I say something she'll laugh or giggle at it.
rosebud · 7 years ago
Plus she openly tells me a lot of personal stuff, which means she trusts me.
chilledtothebone · 7 years ago
@dr_richard_ew let her know that no matter how attracted to her boyfriend she is, if he won't treat her right, that's the fastest way abusive relationships happen. Tell her that you want to see her truly happy. That's the best advice I'm able to give, haha- I wish you the best of luck!
@rosebud she's probably interested, she's giving you the right signs. Try to really be there for her, and do everything you can to make her happy. Us girls really like seeing the people we're into really put their all into being there for us, and most of all, we like to see commitment and supportiveness. Just be careful not to overdo it and come off as desperate. Good luck with Sally!
deleted · 7 years ago
awwwww, congrats pal!
parisqeen · 7 years ago
Congratulations bud! That is awesome, hope you guys are super happy together :D