unicycle · 7 years ago
That's terrible, definitely not something to make light of. It's frustrating that nobody in your home has mentioned it - maybe they noticed but didn't want to bring it up? Either way, I hope the change in hairstyle has you feeling better.
diyrogue · 7 years ago
It does a bit, I miss having extremely long hair but it's okay it'll grow.
And they're the kind of people who if they notice something they'll tell you, like if I wore my hair up a lot of down a lot they'd comment how they never saw it the other way anymore. And whenever I ever mentioned going to get my hair cut or dyed they'd do the " but you have such pretty hair you shouldn't mess with it"
unicycle · 7 years ago
I can see how frustrating that would be. I went through something similar where I was having a rough time around age 16 so I cut my waist-length hair to shoulder-length. My family knew I was dealing with a lot of things so they didn't really mention it to me even though it was a very dramatic change. Maybe the people in your house are trying to give you space to deal with what's been happening, or don't want to hurt your feelings by bringing it up. Also, after I cut off my hair I missed it and had a little regret for maybe a week or so, but then I started feeling a lot better, more free and less worried overall. I hope something similar happens for you.
sm19 · 7 years ago
I'd report that bastard to your principle. You shouldn't have to take that from anyone that is bullying to the most awful degree.
deleted · 7 years ago
Because this series of 13 Reasons Why is quite well known now, for you to have done that change, ofcourse the silly people would mention that. But don't think deeply about it. Lot's of celebrities also make huge drastic changes to their looks whether coz they wanted to or for other reasons and people don't say they are suicidal.
deleted · 7 years ago
Like unicycle said, we do tend to want changes to our features when we are tired of something(s) or stuff around us get overwhelming. Sometimes to relax/feel free/feel like a new person or start afresh with this big change. It is very normal and regrets will come with any drastic change. Do changes little by little next time or some kind of change that you know you can still be happy with. Take time in your decisions whatever they may be and really weigh everything out beforehand, especially with such a large haircut. It'll grow and it will be beautiful!! But it will take a lot of time to grow back. From now until then, make sure you look in the mirror and make yourself see a new and still beautiful you. I had long curly hair and dyed it and cut it to below my ears. Because of the dye, I lost some curliness and now after a year my hair is finally down to my shoulder (as curly). Regretted it, but I felt I had to do the change after a stressful and tiring uni year of drama and hard work.