it doesn't really take long to see that side of people.

I am too thoughtful about things like that. If I have a thinking/feeling about something then I won't tell anyone about it until I have figured out how I feel about it. Even my brother doesn't know a few things about me (We are very close in that sense) because I'm too worried about not representing my own thoughts and counter-arguments for that idea. I never speak a word about how I feel about many topics or people until I fully understand it. I think about odd things like sexuality, death, philosophy, quantum physics, astronomy, and theoretical things like that. I enjoy talking about things like that which makes it difficult to hang out with people.

@spookykink57 That's perfectly fine. I understand.
@sir_spiderman Thats really smart. You learn about what you're saying.

Yea, but it has the effect of closing me off from others and hiding things about myself because I don't know exactly what it is I'm feeling.

I hate thinking. I can't have a simple thought without taking to a next level. I also think faster than I speak so I sometimes slam into my words and freeze.

I do the same. I find it hard to open up to anyone, online or irl. I don't know what will happen if I say something. So i often don't say anything.

@serosenpai that's okay. It means you're smart.

I do this often too. When I don't anything about something. I don't speak about that.

@spookykink57 Can you clarify?

You know, what sir_spiderman said that, he doesn't talk about things he doesn't know about. I do that too. If I don't know anything about something. I don't speak on that subject.

Now i get it. Sorry. That's really good. Usually I don't tell people about stuff that I don't know, unless I'm asking about it.

Aah It's cool mate. And yup. I do the same.

It's only bad when I know i need to know something, but for some reason I can't being myself to ask at all.

I guess then Google is our Friend eh?

Usually yes. But sometimes my questions are in regards to a person.

Well I can only say one thing. We get ourselves together and go ask them.

Yes. It might take me weeks or months (more commonly months) but i eventually ask them.

Yup. And take your time. It will be alright

I know that. Social Anxiety however.....
honestly my social anxiety isn't as bad as it used to be. I can now have a normal conversation without worry. But random things still are hard to say.

It's nice that it's been better. And those random things would get easy too