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sir_spiderman · 6 years ago
Alright this is getting confusing. My last message was replying to your "edgy male group" comment.
rydler · 6 years ago
Did you comsider the emotional backlash the girls could have? Sending them into a downward spiral is a possibility.
rydler · 6 years ago
I'm following this just fine.
sir_spiderman · 6 years ago
The backlash wouldn't be too different than anything else any other teenager feels. After all, that is what the relationship will likely be for them.
rydler · 6 years ago
True. But i do not think it a wise move to date a girl just to build her confidence or whatnot. A friend can do that too.
sir_spiderman · 6 years ago
Ah, but "dating" the girl will benefit me more than being her friend. This benefit is that it is likely that gaining this experience will increase my ability to have more joy/fun in the future.
rydler · 6 years ago
You have the same ability to be happy now as you would dating. The word you mean is opportunities.
sir_spiderman · 6 years ago
I don't really have friends. I have people I rant to or provide information to me. Call it callous, but if I don't see a benefit in having a "friendship" with someone, then I simply won't be friends with them. I may be able to extract some joy from just being friends with someone, but I believe I could extract even more in a romantic relation of some sort.

I believe the purpose of life to be to have as much joy for as long as possible. This scenario gives far more possible joy if I get in a relationship with someone when compared to as I am now or by just being friends.
rydler · 6 years ago
Hm. I see. My view is different. I see the purpose of life is to make as many other people happy as possible. I find happiness in the happiness of others. So, if that makes you happy - so long as it doesn't hurt anyone - I say go for it. You deserve happiness just like everyone else. Go for it.
rydler · 6 years ago
Be it callous or rude, who am I to judge?
sir_spiderman · 6 years ago
My own morality is basically non-existent, so I created an abstract list of things to do to allow me to fit in at least slightly with most of society. I could start trying to play games with her as well. It would give me quite a bit of enjoyment and experience, but that would be an intentional act of harm towards another living being, a sentient one at that, which violates a few of these guidelines. It's why I prefer to plan my actions out so as to properly level them against what most would consider to be bad and adjust accordingly. On the internet, I don't bother as it provides a nice little release when my brother is not available.

Indeed Ms. @Rydler, indeed.
rydler · 6 years ago
Ah yes, you said you had ASPD correct? Well, you do seem to be following a good path.
sir_spiderman · 6 years ago
I believe I do on some level, but I don't wish to misdiagnose myself, therefore, I prefer to simply say I have sociopathic tendencies. It gets the point across without me making possibly false claims that have no true goal. Don't lie unless it has a benefit and then remember your lie. Lying should be done with purpose and care so as not to make it bite you on your ass.
rydler · 6 years ago
Well, you certainly fit the "edgy teen male" subset.
rydler · 6 years ago
I'm kidding. But yes, lying should be done only to prevent someone from being hurt.
sir_spiderman · 6 years ago
I likely do fit the "edgy teen male" subset. Many edgy teen males trying to look cool like to mimic those like me, although, those same teens would likely say the same towards me.

Not quite what I said about lying, but it'll work.
rydler · 6 years ago
I know what you said. A benefit of not hirting someone. You meant for yourself but eh. To each their own.
rydler · 6 years ago
Welp, my phone is dying, i shall pop up again sometime Spidey.
sir_spiderman · 6 years ago
Cya! You've officially become one of the few I rant my real thoughts to btw.
rydler · 6 years ago
Well thank you!