parisqeen · 1 week ago
I am so so sorry to hear that, if you need anything we're all here for you. Grief is the strangest thing, in my personal experience it takes a few weeks before the reality has set in that that person is gone so don't feel guilty if you don't feel sad straight away. The best thing to do to help it pass is to talk, talk about his past (try to remember the happy memories), talk about his importance and how much he was loved with his family (only if they feel like talking). Just try and reminisce. Cry, crying is really important to release emotion and it just helps get that horrible gross feeling out of your stomach. The whole experience of grief is not a fun one but you have to remember it will pass, it may take a long time but it will pass. Everyone takes grief in different ways so try and respect that too, DO NOT feel guilty about laughing or smiling, you are allowed to have other emotions besides sadness in this time. Again, here for you if you need anything xx
rydler · 1 week ago
I’m not good with grief advice, I’m sorry, but I am here and I will listen to you whenever you need me. I’m really sorry I can’t give you any advice.
unicycle · 1 week ago
Everyone is going to process grief differently and there's no wrong way to do it as long as you don't harm yourself or others. Make sure you have a good support system of family or friends and talk to them if you need. Face-to-face is best for getting comfort and support. You can talk about it as much or as little as you want. Some people want to eat comfort food and cry and some people want to focus on school/work/etc; both are perfectly fine. If you need to, don't feel afraid or ashamed to talk to a professional if you find yourself bogged down by overwhelming feelings - grief therapy is usually very short and extremely effective.
sir_spiderman · 1 week ago
Get over it. It sounds harsh, but that's all you can really do. Moping about like Bella isn't going to solve much so just live your life.
parisqeen · 1 week ago
Okay dude, you can't say that. I know what you're trying to say but you can't say it like that, don't do that in the future.
rydler · 1 week ago
He means to say push through. Keep going.
mrfahrenheit · 1 week ago
To be honest, I actually agree with Spidey for once. Most problems aren't solved by being upset. They're solved by taking action. I may sound like a heartless dick, but...well, yeah. I'm a heartless dick
rydler · 1 week ago
If you need to take time to yourself, do it. But try to keep going
rydler · 1 week ago
I'm not sure what I expected. Thank you Spidey
sir_spiderman · 1 week ago
Anytime Mon-Fri 6:30-7:40 am OR 5:00-9:00 pm with sporadic openings during the weekend.
rydler · 1 week ago
Do you do holidays?
sir_spiderman · 1 week ago
Usually, but if I am not available then I will leave a chat about it probably or tell ya.
rydler · 1 week ago
Ah. And do you charge anything? If so, how much?