i dont know!

Is it bigger than a breadbox?

I'm guessing your previous partner and If I'm right I'm so sorry to hear that but also, if they made a promise like that and then left you they were foolish and you have only lost a lovely idea that could've been an unfortunate/disappointing reality. What I mean is, you dodged a bullet and this has a lot more to do with them then it does with you. Regardless, breakups hurt either way but the pain will get easier with time just make sure you try and stop any thoughts like "it's my fault" or "If i only did this" "if i changed that" yadda yadda cause those are silly and won't help you feel any better. Cry if you need to but don't give your ex-partner more grief then they deserve.

@parisqeen u got mah point tho. But he didnt have any regrets for losing me

Then he didn't deserve you in the first place. It wasn't your fault for thinking he was telling the truth, heck he might of thought he was being truthful himself but a promise so big is unfair on both of you to make. I think if he doesn't appear to be missing you, then you shouldn't spend too much time missing him as it's for the best that it's over. You need someone who means what they say and he wasn't that person, give yourself time, (forgive yourself for things that aren't even your fault) and think of the possibility of finding someone who will treat you how you wish to be treated. For now, you can be sad though, it's okay to feel like shit after a breakup and it's okay to be angry or jealous that he doesn't appear to be sad. It has nothing to do with you though, it has everything to do with him.

Yeah. Fuck him. He’ll either keep fucking yo and suffering- and you dodged a bullet, or eventually figure out his bullshit in which case you shouldn’t have to baby sit him and deal with the pain while he does. The truth is- sometimes no matter how great we are, what a person needs in order to grow can’t be had with us. Sometimes it’s the adversity and struggles and hard lessons that teach a person how to “do right.” Either way I’m sorry you had to get hurt because of him- but whatever happens in his life you don’t have to worry anymore. Live your life and find someone who already values loyalty and will treat you the way you deserve. Best of luck.

@cmllrlly I believe @parisqeen is right. Im sorry to hear that too. It's not your fault and you do deserve much more better. I just know that you're going to get through this

Well parisqeen once again has quite eloquently said what I think most of us were thinking.
Are you okay?

Someone who does that probably isnt someone you want to be with. I say good riddens', you can do better.

I had the exact same shit happen to me at grade 12, so after school ended I've promptly cut her ass out of my life and never looked back. I'm now in a real relationship that's been going on for a year, and from what I've heard from other people is that not only her new bf is keeping her from seeing her old friends (nice choice, bitch), but now has a child who she has to look after

Ooft! You made the right call Doc
@cmllrlly, like Xvar said, you doing okay? You're not obliged to keep us updated but we'd like to know how you're feeling

Hey guys, thank you so much for tyour advices, it made me feel relieved knowing there are people out there who could listen

It's so amazing to hear from you, @cmllrlly !!
I'm always here (and many others) to hear you out if you have any problems you want to talk about.

I second @aviva, glad you feel a little better. It's gonna be rough for awhile but over time you'll feel the weight of all those confusing feelings disappear.

Yes thank you guysss!!! You helped a lot on relieveing the pain knowing people like you understands :')

@cmllrlly Awww don't mention it :)