You don't have any selfies posted, so there's nothing to go off of... but I can tell you these few things off the cuff:
• We are often our own worst critics in many ways. Our works, actions and looks.
• You just may posses what some call "unconventional beauty." An attractiveness that only a select few finds appealing and is often overlooked my most. I think it is better, after a fashion, because it is only seen by those with an eye for detail and who pay attention.
• From a cinematic perspective, when you see a "beautiful person" in public, you are seeing their highlights reel and you are comparing it in your mind to your raw footage... the footage for your highlights reel, B-roll and bloopers. You should always be cautious with those comparisons.
Bottom line, a very small amount of low self esteem can be good, because it can be powerful motivation to make yourself even better... just don't beat yourself up too much.
It's happened to me in a couple other threads too.
My best guess is that someone DID mention you but they thought differently of it, chickened out or changed their mind and deleted the coment.
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• We are often our own worst critics in many ways. Our works, actions and looks.
• You just may posses what some call "unconventional beauty." An attractiveness that only a select few finds appealing and is often overlooked my most. I think it is better, after a fashion, because it is only seen by those with an eye for detail and who pay attention.
• From a cinematic perspective, when you see a "beautiful person" in public, you are seeing their highlights reel and you are comparing it in your mind to your raw footage... the footage for your highlights reel, B-roll and bloopers. You should always be cautious with those comparisons.
Bottom line, a very small amount of low self esteem can be good, because it can be powerful motivation to make yourself even better... just don't beat yourself up too much.
Don't forget, there's two more steps:
Knowing the above and second, believing it.
That last part can be the hardest part.
My best guess is that someone DID mention you but they thought differently of it, chickened out or changed their mind and deleted the coment.