Pretty sure you can't use a hand to compare since the difference between guys and girls is more than the difference between hands but yeah that's cheating
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· 6 years ago
What the fuck I'm not saying it isn't bad I'm saying the comparison isn't that great
^^This.
This is the mature, adult way to handle and indulge an SO's curiosity or other side.
However, you must also account for the slightest possibility that she may fall for her or another. You need to prepare yourself for the chance you might have to let her go.
15 years and three kids is a lot to let go of, I understand where you're coming from thought.
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· 6 years ago
But if you walk in on her with out her telling you beforehand, it's clearly cheating. If you'll just brush off cheating with watching the rest of it, that doesn't seem like a stable relationship
But idk tho
Ymmv but in our case that situation would be a surprise planned for me they would be just starting. 15 years she knows me very well. I would have " caught them".
There's some hardcore drive by downvoting going on in here.
Here's my bottom line... this is only my opinion, so take it for what you will:
If it wasn't agreed upon prior, as in to have an "open" relationship, regardless of identity or orientation, it's cheating.
However, should an interest outside the relationship be sparked outside your usual preferred identity and orientation, that may be forgivable... but it should still be talked about first.
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· 6 years ago
Some people are just idiots I got downvoted because I thought comparing men and women to hitting with left and right hands was stupid
This is the mature, adult way to handle and indulge an SO's curiosity or other side.
However, you must also account for the slightest possibility that she may fall for her or another. You need to prepare yourself for the chance you might have to let her go.
But idk tho
There's only one
Women are property
Here's my bottom line... this is only my opinion, so take it for what you will:
If it wasn't agreed upon prior, as in to have an "open" relationship, regardless of identity or orientation, it's cheating.
However, should an interest outside the relationship be sparked outside your usual preferred identity and orientation, that may be forgivable... but it should still be talked about first.