Think before you act

Still makes it not my problem

Doesn't just do that, it multiplies the pain among more people. Telling your friend "See you tomorrow!" at the end of one day, only to find out the next day she decided to eat a bullet that night makes you question a lot of what you might have done. "If only..."

I get the idea but... doesn't it not just make the person feel worse for how they feel?

Someone put one of those on the bridge near where I live

Feeling this currently, my best friend since age four committed suicide Sunday night, his twin sis is hospitalized from having a mental breakdown, and I've taken three days off work because I can't focus on anything.

take your family with you?