Hahaha, a little yes, a little no. What were you expecting me to say?
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I think that whether its love, or anger or anything else thats bursting out of you, but you deliberately withhold it will eat you forever. But even for a guy like me with a reputation negatively associated with sharing whats on his mind.. you can't always share everything.
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There are things I want to say to my family, my boss, my ex, that I'll take to my grave with me. Because I know better.. doesnt mean it wouldnt feel good to spit it out.
I was expecting you to say your thoughts <.< it wasn't a trap. This time...
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You always sound like you are very forthright so was curious what you'd make of this statement
What if it's not the trap, but.... *A* Trap
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Oh no you don't. I've turned my brain off for the night-- you'll not be tricking me into THINKING again at this stage in the evening
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What you said sounds more or less accurate, however. I think I've said things like that to you as well-- you can't share everything with everyone, but you can't hold it all in forever either. Everything in moderation I guess?
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· 5 years ago
I'd spring the trap. Not a trap. They would try and spring me, and then get a firm kick in..
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Is it nighttime for you 20 hours a day? ;)
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I CAN share everything. I just don't share everything. The moderation thing is actually bullshit. Like, not just me and my bravado sayingl that, all the most successful people on the planet agree. Go all in, bathe in, drown in whatever you're doing.
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With all that said.. sometimes it just doesn't FEEL right to share everything. Even when we know that getting it off your chest always feels better, theres often enough reason to withhold.. my opinion anyway
Sometimes this is true. Sometimes not. Wether you allow yourself to have regrets or not is up to you. Every missed chance and bad choice I’ve made has brought me here. Every dark time and challenge I faced helped me understand myself. Be able to understand and empathize with other people. Each step gave me tools to change and become better if I didn’t allow myself to fall prey to negativity. Through failure I become stronger, I learn and can grow. Failure is usually a possibility wether you speak up or not. It’s usually better to try and fail than not try and fail as the former has a greater chance for success than the latter.
However- one must be “smart” and it helps to have “good instincts.” Life is a windy road. We never know who or what from decades in our past will come back again. With that in mind- going for a long shot now could preclude our chances of success at the same thing later in life when we posses the skills and growth to have a higher chance at success. Since we can’t see the future we can’t really know either way. We just have to follow our head and our heart and make the best choice we believe we can in a moment. Sometimes that is to speak- sometimes not. We have to forgive ourselves for not being perfect and seeing the future- looking back later and beating ourselves up is pointless as we do t know what would happen if things went different and so long as we made the choice we felt was best st the time- all we can do is try next time to make a better choice.
Every time you post this it gets wittier than the last. But it is flattering to know you follow my work, and that despite my continuing to do so that you care enough to dedicate your time to offering your opinion. Every time I see one of these from you it flatters me and makes me smile, so thank you for putting the time into this.
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· 5 years ago
You’re welcome, you lecturious, mediocre, pain in the ass. Keep thanking me, appreciation is always appreciated.
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I think that whether its love, or anger or anything else thats bursting out of you, but you deliberately withhold it will eat you forever. But even for a guy like me with a reputation negatively associated with sharing whats on his mind.. you can't always share everything.
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There are things I want to say to my family, my boss, my ex, that I'll take to my grave with me. Because I know better.. doesnt mean it wouldnt feel good to spit it out.
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You always sound like you are very forthright so was curious what you'd make of this statement
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Well there you have them. Thoughts on my thoughts?
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Oh no you don't. I've turned my brain off for the night-- you'll not be tricking me into THINKING again at this stage in the evening
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What you said sounds more or less accurate, however. I think I've said things like that to you as well-- you can't share everything with everyone, but you can't hold it all in forever either. Everything in moderation I guess?
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Is it nighttime for you 20 hours a day? ;)
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I CAN share everything. I just don't share everything. The moderation thing is actually bullshit. Like, not just me and my bravado sayingl that, all the most successful people on the planet agree. Go all in, bathe in, drown in whatever you're doing.
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With all that said.. sometimes it just doesn't FEEL right to share everything. Even when we know that getting it off your chest always feels better, theres often enough reason to withhold.. my opinion anyway