School absolutely is the hardest part of our lives. We have yet to experience the real world and other things outside of school. "School is the easiest part of your life." Is only relevant if you're out of school because I for one have yet to experience anything else.
Yeah but in saying that, school is where you are forced to learn the subjects and choose the subjects that are going to set you up for the rest of your life. It's not exactly a small decision.
School is so far, all the stress and hatred and popularity and all that other bull shit, is worsening my depression. How am I supposed to survive the "hard" part of life when I never make through the easy and just decide to end it?
school may not be the worst but it's very stressful at the time. You have to decide on the type of career you want when your like 14, go through exams and then more exams to try and get you into a university or at least on the right track, while possibly balancing a job. It may not seem stressful once you're past it, but at the time it's possibly the worst problem you have because you have yet to experience the struggle beyond it. Kids at my school have full mental breakdowns and make themselves sick because they get so stressed. The problem is that you get suddenly thrown in to a taste of adult life, not eased into it like you should be. They just pull the level and dump a bucket of pressure on you with no warning, and you haven't experienced the problems of adulthood to prepare for that. People say this generation are reckless and lazy and rely on technology too much but then tell us WE have to fix the problems in the world started by previous generations.
Sorry, school is easy? Because from what I remember school was a living nightmare but hey words of wisdom being an "adult" isn't harder, having an job isn't hard, nothing about being an adult other than bills is different. It's the same shit all over again with different people. Don't let some of the adults try to tell you your problems are less important.
Once you get to high school it is definitely not the easiest part of your life because once you graduate, you get to choose something that you are good at and do that while with school you are faced with massive amounts of stress to do well in things that you might be terrible at and chances are won't even use once you get out of school. -Wise advise from my English teacher
Well, children´s problems are in fact really tiny and not important, in comaprison with our problems, but for them are their problems the most important and most complicated thing on the world. So school seems really hard for us, because we don´t know "the real adults" problems yet.
Telling people that they cant have problems because other people have worse problems is like telling people they can't be happy because others may be happier.
It's not like people are being told they can't have problems. They are being reminded that they should be grateful for what they have because others have it so much worse.
Actually, I meant it that you may think, that school is the easiest part of life, because you experienced things, which are much harder than this. But for us is the school the hardest thing ever, because we didn ´t experienced harder things. I didn´t say that someone can´t have problems, because other people have it harder, it must have been missunderstanding. I just compared it to children, because I remeber when I was cca 7 and told my mother, that I have some problem with some friend (I don´t remember what it concretely was) and it was my biggest problem. And she told me, that she only wish to have her biggest problems as small as mine. I didn´t understand, because I didn´t know bigger problems, than these, but now I get it, why she told it.
So if a child at school was getting serverly bullied to suicidal point and when they went home they had abuse, does that make it a smaller and less important problem than an adults? If a child's problems shape them into the person they are gone be, aren't they a big deal? No they might not be as bad as some adults problems, but some adults problems might not be as bad as some kids problems. Just because you are an adult doesn't automatically make your problems worse.
Well, that´s a bit extremist and unfair - bullying is not normal problem to deal with, it´s problem that needs solution. I admit I thought not about bullying, but I thought we are talking about problems like exams, waking up, tests etc. Bullying is a problem, but I apologize, I won´t be talking about it deeper with you, because I wasn´t studying it´s problems and solutions enough. I agree with you, that some adults problems might not be as bad some kids problems, but I was talking about normal children problems, which I mentioned before.
Ok yes I know. But they're talking about school. And at school bullying is a major part of a lot of kids lives. It effects how they sleep and how they focus in class, and waking up for school and their normal problems like that.
Well, I wouldn´t say a lot of kids, but it probably depends on place where kids live. You´re right - when kid is bullied it really influence his life, but as I mentioned, I don´t feel like talking about bullying deeper, for mentioned reasons.
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