Stop making marriage out to be this awful thing, that people "die" when they get married. If you feel like you've died when you got married, you're an asshole that shouldn't have considered marriage in the first place, your spouse deserves much better than you.
Everyone has been single, but if you are still single and have never been married, then you aren't qualified to speak as to the nature of marriage.
Your parents or knowing a married couple doesn't cut it until you have experienced it yourself.
Sure, in MOST cases, it isn't as torturous as pop culture would have you believe, but I can tell you this with certainty, it ain't no fucking fairy tale either.
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· 6 years ago
I see my parents marriage and the marriages around me. They all make me depressed, but then I see my uncle's marriage and my cousin brother's marriage and then I think, there is some hope.
But no one said marriages are all happy fairytails?
All kissalinda said was that if you think marriage is the end or that its automatically terrible, you shouldn't get married and you owe it to your partner who doesn't find their commitment to be " death "
And you can DEFINITELY speak on the nature of marriage if you're saying something that's true for ALL marriages. Like if you say you shouldn't abuse your spouse or have multiple affairs.
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I was just sayin about marriages. Nothing relevant to what anything what you guys said.
Your parents or knowing a married couple doesn't cut it until you have experienced it yourself.
Sure, in MOST cases, it isn't as torturous as pop culture would have you believe, but I can tell you this with certainty, it ain't no fucking fairy tale either.
All kissalinda said was that if you think marriage is the end or that its automatically terrible, you shouldn't get married and you owe it to your partner who doesn't find their commitment to be " death "
And you can DEFINITELY speak on the nature of marriage if you're saying something that's true for ALL marriages. Like if you say you shouldn't abuse your spouse or have multiple affairs.