To flirt means to risk something, show yourself. Rather than agreeing to everything s/he says, make your own point. Be explicit, don't say s/he is nice when you mean hot. Trying to avoid rejection is an expressway to friendzone. You're not put in friendzone, its usually your own choice.
Aha! there's the rub! I'm not a risky person. I take calculated risks and if my relationship with a person *could* be at all compromised it's not worth it.
My husband asked me out pretty much the minute he found out my then-boyfriend and I weren't exclusive. We'd been friends for about two years at that point, but once he knew that I was looking, he made it clear both that he was interested, and that he wouldn't just disappear if I wasn't interested.
Sometimes and you all can hate me if you want but sometes people think that being nice atomatiy gives them a resltionship. It's the friend zone/ being in a relationship with me is not my way of repaying you to be overly nice.
I think perhaps they think they are flirting (expressing romantic interest) by being nice. It's not the same and yes, there are those in the friendzone who put themselves there. These guys simply need a lesson in flirting.
The picture is making the assumption that the majority of it's audience are people who don't know how to flirt and blame the girl for putting them in the friend zone. It's about why she puts you in the friend zone, not whether she's obligated to or not.
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