Wow. What a bitch. Girls, here's a hint. If I guy is asking you on a date, odds are good he's serious about it. There are some exceptions of course (if you are kind of an anti-social loner type and the captain of the football team asks you out, proceed with extreme caution), but in general they mean it.
It would depend on the context. I work in an office and commonly joke that my coworkers owe me lunch when they have last minute requests. If one of them offered to take me up on it, I'd assume they were joking back. People are funny things with the ability to wildly misinterpret each other's intentions. But as I said above, it seems too likely that, in this particular case, the girl was being intentionally cruel.
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