Damn ninjas be cutting onions

Yes you can. You're just looking in the wrong places

I think he means it is different today because everyone is so fast pased, no body writes letters anymore, no one takes the time to love each other anymore they meet 15 guys (or girls) in a month off tinder trying to force these relationships instead of growing them

Again, you're looking in the wrong places

So all the people who have met each other in person and have had a great relationship, or all the people who have met on Tinder and had the same outcome; their relationships are invalid simply because you think we "don't have love like this today"? What about when people send each other flowers or make/buy gifts or each other? Or take each other out for a movie or a dance or dinner? All of these are invalid?