As much as I don’t agree with the choice to skip the wedding, or the choice to have an abortion, it’s kinda a dick move to shove someone’s face in it after they politely said they would rather not go. It’s rude and I think they should get over themselves for their family, but that’s not exactly the response you should give if you’re trying to take the moral high ground like that
I see what you mean, but thats just stooping to their level, and then you both look like assholes. I don’t agree with any of the decisions made personally
The family are jerks, and wrong. But he was a jerk too. There are a million reasons why, but his logic is flawed. She got an abortion (something she believes is wrong), and now he wants her to go to a gay wedding (something she thinks is wrong.) Does it make a person a hypocrite if they do a single wrong thing and then refuse to do more, or once you make one moral mister in life you should totally abandon your values because you aren’t perfect? Who is? And don’t most major religions spend a lot of time telling people that they are flawed, they will make mistakes, and that trying to be better is as close as people get because they’ll never be perfect? So throwin her abortion in her face was not only low class, but what does it matter? If you cheated on your first girlfriend does that mean you have to help your buddy cheat on his wife 40 years later? It’s a dumb argument. She should go to his wedding because there’s no reason not to other than being a bigot- but his words were too harsh
Too bad she seems to have missed the entire foundation of Christianity, which is to love one another without judgement or condition. “A new command I give you: Love one another. As I have loved you, so you must love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” Too many "christians" seem to forget this.
She literally said she loved him and would keep him in her prayers. You can love someone without approving of their actions or compromising your beliefs.
But refusing to attend his wedding, and before that refusing to respond, that's not showing love, its showing judgement. Words are easy, actions speak louder
You can love them without approving their actions, but if their actions don’t hurt anyone and make them happy, then there’s nothing to protest. Your loved one can’t live their life for you, and choosing to reject a central aspect of their life... well- if you can’t go to their wedding, you logically couldn’t go to their home, be around them and their partner, at that point you essentially have cut them out of your life- for disapproval of an action, or in this case, rejection of who they are on a fundamental level. If that’s the case you don’t love them. You live your idea of them, and when they don’t conform to your idea of who they should be, you cut them off. You live who they WOULD be to you if you didn’t know that aspect of them. And for what? Because you wouldn’t do it?
The gradient doesn’t stay constant from top to bottom it changes as you scroll so if you cut off a text scroll and take another screenshot this is exactly what it would look like
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