I'm sort of sad with my relationship. My boyfriend and I have been together for a long time. We've planned out lives together, we fit perfectly together. We both have what the other looks for in the other person, both mentally, emotionally, and physically. But we sort of end up on the fencenon some view points. He wants us to have different views so we can grow and learn, but I'm really sensitive and every debate feels like an attack, even though I know that isn't his goal. Any advice ?
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underyourbed · 4 comments
9 years ago
thebeginning
· 9 years ago
Well if he wants you to have your own view on things I think thats good. There are a lot of people who just want you to view things their way and it shouldn't work like that. My advice is go always stick to what you believe and don't be scared in debates with your boyfriend. Just because y'all have been together forever doesn't mean y'all are the same person.
thebeginning
· 9 years ago
Idk if that helps
deleted
· 9 years ago
Tell him when it feels like an attack. Make sure to show love and affection to each other after debates so you can feel connected again.
deleted
· 9 years ago
Let him know, and let him know you know it isn't his intention or his fault. Work through this together so you both get what you want; different viewpoints on some things and a lack of argumental debates
