P.s not going to judge anyone here. Honestly just curious of other's opinions.

A relationship is not strong on the basis of marriage or sex, it is strong if the bond between the lovers is very close, if you really love the person then the relationship should be just as meaningful after premarital sex, ir even WITHOUT sex at all!

Sorry if this came across as cheesy :P

It didn't! I feel the same way.

I hope this answered your question :)

Sex with someone else before marriage can hurt the relationship, even if it was before the current relationship. It can adversely affect the love life too. At least until you work through it together.

Also, from a logical standpoint, sex releases bonding hormones in both males and females and thus can cloud your judgement of the person and whether they really are someone you want a long term relationship with. So don't do it before you've made up your mind or you might be tempted to gloss over things that otherwise would be red flags for you.

I personally think that as long as both people are ready for sex is doesn't matter if you're married or not. I don't think sex should be taken as seriously as it is, but at the same time if somebody else doesn't like premarital sex then that's their belief and should be respected. In the end it's all down to the individual and how they feel about it.

For me, I think people should just wait. It can help determine if you're partner is patient and is really the right one for you. I know someone who's been in a relationship with a guy for 6 years and they broke up just because the guy wanted to have sex with her but she refused.