hunterdunovant · 9 years ago
I'd like some advise.
inspirationandlove · 9 years ago
About what?:)
inspirationandlove · 9 years ago
I would get something sent to her. Its indirect but also really caring. You can get flowers sent to her work or ever get her a birchbox sent to her house.
Also, you could get a paper bag, fill it with microwave popcorn, candy, a soda, a $5 movie or netflix and a fake movie ticket you made. Give her the bag and tell her to call you at (whatever time) and open it.then you two can have a long distance movie night together. Just make sure you both have the movie.
If you feel like its deeper than that, talk to her, tell her you feel distanced from her and that you love and miss her. Ask how you can make it better and if its worth fixing. Do fun stuff with her, its the end of the summer. Take her to a fair, dance, kiss in the sunshine and enjoy your love:)
inspirationandlove · 9 years ago
No problem! Let me know anytime if you need anything else:)
pranayderpson · 9 years ago
I do!
thethirdi · 9 years ago
Everyone is heading back to college but I just started co-op. Going to be very quiet for me.
inspirationandlove · 9 years ago
Yes prana?
inspirationandlove · 9 years ago
And, I am in community college right not to save money, as is my boyfriend. All of our friends went off to college and were stuck here. Our sucked at first but it ready helped me open up my horizons. I was able to make twice the amount of brand new friends. Staying stagnant and doing the same old thing is boring and monotonous. Movies aren't made about the guy that never changes. They're made about the guy who is thrown into a new situation and does something about it. You have an awesome opportunity. These new people wont know anything about you. Reinvent yourself and keep growing.
otamega · 9 years ago
I need some advice. I don't have friends but I can socialize pretty damn well and I've been pretty chummy with some people. However, I'm missing that special connection. I don't know if I'm impatient or something but when I see all these people with their groups of pals, it makes me so jealous that I can't have something like that. Advice on this?
inspirationandlove · 9 years ago
Don't rush it, to start. If you push it, you're going to connect with the wrong people. Deep friendships don't just happen. I only have two really good friends. One is a girl I grew up with like a sister and the other is my boyfriend I've had for four years. So... It can't be rushed. If you have just one good friend, that is the beginning. If people notice you two always laughing and having fun, they will be drawn to you. Sit at an open table at lunch, go to events together, eventually you will bring in more people. Start hanging out with other people and eventually you'll fall into a group. Don't be a recluse, go and have fun! But don't obsess and constantly, or you'll never find one. I have had many groups over the years. Most end in fights. It's never like what you see on That 70s Show or Friends. Just remember that friends come and go, and most people have a very hard time making the same connection.