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I've just passed my two month anniversary with a guy I've been seeing... the first guy I've ever been in a relationship with. I have been feeling more and more that maybe I don't really like being in a relationship with a man. There's nothing wrong with him, I just don't think I like it as much. The issue is that he's very attached to me and I don't want to break his heart. We gave our virginity to each other. I just don't feel attached to him

Be honest and don't put off breaking up with him. Find a time where you two can talk iin person with some privacy and let him know how you feel

My issue is I'm such a soft hearted person that I don't want to send him back into the depression he was in before we started dating

That won't be hour fault if he does. Staying with him just to spare his feelings will hurt the both of you. Let hikm know that yooure still going to be in his life, but you sint want to be in it as a couple. You can say that in a nicer way

I don't think he'll want me in his life

Then that's his loss. Try your best and be kind, but you have to put your foot down if he get a pushy. Not like in a bitch way, bujt he needs to know that you're serious

The fear of being the trigger for someone's depression, especially in a relationship, is extremely difficult. Like mightyoak said you need to set a time to talk with him in detail about WHY you don't want to continue the relationship, make sure he KNOWS he's not going anything wrong you just don't feel a 'spark' or something and that he shouldn't change or feel like he needs to. Tell him if he doesn't want you there you understand but if not then you'll still be a support in his life.

Well... I did it

How'd it go???

He took it well, but it will hit him later. I really wanted a clean break but he's just kinda holding onto the vague hope that we can still be friends

You don't want to be friends with him?

I do but he made it clear that he wouldn't really put an effort into it, so I guess I just want a clean cut

I'm sorry it ended that way but I'm proud of you. You did something big and kudos for doing it

Same, that took guts well done