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That her post baby body (after having 3 kids) was not thanks to diet or exercise, but thanks to a tummy tuck, liposuction and a boob job
I felt so bad for so long because she works, goes to school and has kids then all of a sudden was starting to get really fit lol

I mean you look great. It takes a lot of work to recover from having kids. specially 3.

It sounds like she's doing great; working, going to school and taking care of a family is hard work. You could also just be happy for her and acknowledge how hard she must work. Instead, it looks like you're envying her and accentuating (what you perceive to be) a flaw and ridiculing it, in some attempt to undermine her hard work. All just so you feel less insecure...
It's pretty ugly behavior, tbh...

Hey you have a great bod too, regardless of how another person got a good looking figure you shouldn't let that hinder your self-perception. Beauty comes in many forms and honestly being a hard working mum is beautiful enough.

Well she has money for getting stuffs done and gets more comfortable and confident about her look, good for her.

I dont dislike her or think what she did was wrong, it just makes me less jealous because we are both in the same boat right now and I was just so confused about how she found the time to get an amazing body like that too. She works really hard and I think shes great, but yeah it was hard on me because I've been trying super hard to get healthy and back to my post baby body so I'm happy and shes happy so it's all good!
Not something I would personally do, but it's her body so she can do her thing! And she does look great I'm just not jealous anymore because I know that info and that I'm on the right track

And I appreciate the compliments.. I suffer from having a low self esteem so I appreciate it

It's normal to be envious when you find someone in a similar situation very attractive, you're on the right track though. Everyone improves and changes at different paces, eventually you will reach a point where you are happy with your body, it takes a lot of concentration, time and effort to change those patterns of thinking.

If I cross the line with this, IDGAF: You underestimate how fucking hot you are. Once in awhile, actually tend towards being arrogant about it; it'll improve your mindset. Make yourself the badass and make bitches fall in line. Once you see it works, reign it in... don't abuse the power.... otherwise... well... Jurassic Park.