Oh man the best thing to do is deal with it

It's beyond tolerating now...they are invading my privacy and they talk bullshit.
I'm helpless

Is this a work environment?

nope.
just my relatives and friends

Well maybe they're being like that for a reason. Maybe they are trying to figure out what's wrong with you (if there is something wrong with you). My family became like that with me when I started to become more rebellious. So it might be for a good reason.

Kill them with kindness.

thebeginning they(relatives) don't care for me...they want to torture me mentally and I'm just tired sometimes they take it too far and I break down..and I feel weak and I hate that feeling..
and
chikachikaboom I've shown them enough kindness...that's why they take me for granted.

It's a pretty basic thing to do but quite effective: Stay away from anything that causes unnecessary suffering. It works wonders. (I'm not trying to be sarcastic. I always tried to please these people but when I actually stayed away from these people, instead of searching them out, I'm able to be myself now.)

thanks!! but you see I can't get away from them...they are always with me and I can't outrun them.