And no, woman's suffrage is objective history, not "gender identity".
Care-giving is not a liberty, it is a practical reality. What teachers have no liberty over is a child's identity, ideology, or thoughts.

No. You're reaching, now.
Jeff can talk about his daddies or mommies all he wants, just like Niel can talk about his cousin's bar mitzvah, or Lu about her head scarf. But a teacher cannot advocate or condemn the mommies, daddies, Jews, or Muslims.
Being compelled to "share" private property is wrong, but speaking in turns falls under "good order and discipline". There is nothing ideological about not speaking over a teacher while your classmates are trying to learn how to add two-digit numbers. God knows most of us would've been happier if the trouble-makers would pipe-down for just a few minutes at a time.
It is established history that people thought women, blacks, jews, whatever, were inferior. Bring up the quotes and actions of the men and women who thought one way, the other, and in-between. I would personally love for teachers to teach the context, but I can't hold what I like to different standards when it comes to legislation effecting everyone.

Up to the third grade level seems arbitrary, but it does give parents and guardians the most control over the most developmentally critical years.

Really? That's the best you could come up with?
The law is for teachers dealing with young children to say "Ask your parents", when a subject comes up. It isn't state control, it is the state ceding control to those who actually should be the ones to have it.
If the schools had to do the same thing regarding race, "ask your parents", or guns, "ask your parents", or anything that isn't numbers, maps, labs, or settled history "ask your parents", it would be a major victory for individuals and families everywhere. Certainly better than what we've had in my lifetime.

Third graders and younger do not need to know about trans, homosexuality, or anything about sex beyond "Tell a cop if anybody touches your __".
They're learning geography, shapes, penmanship, recess, times tables. Not sex, drugs, and fascism.

You people, you keep assuming that the state will always be righteous, that it ever has been righteous.
What if Trump were the raging racist ya'll thought and might still insist he is? Would you want him to be able to decide how your children are raised? The AG's son is already teaching children racism, discrimination, and outright lies. You would empower Trump, Bush, Clinton, Kamela, Hitler, Castro, or anybody else who can force their way into power that kind of authority over your children? What if the state decides that men shouldn't leave the kitchen? Or that Asians are meant to be enslaved?
But no, you'll just keep assuming that the "good" guys are always in charge.

Then the children will go out into the world with the values instilled by their families and learned from their peers, to succeed or fail on those merits alone.

Guest, educators have no liberty with the children of others.

You think you're joking, failure. But teachers across the nation have been indoctrinating children, telling them to go to riots, teaching racism against whites and those who "act white", insulting the veterans in kid's families, and teaching sex or ideology, not on an objective basis at an age appropriate level, but under the guise of "Your parents are thieves, inherently racist, and bad people".
I would know, I was in school when the bullshit was really starting to catch on.

No, kids can bring their religion from home. Their patriotism, their ethnic pride, they can even share and explore their crushes or friendships.
What cannot happen is for teachers or the state to be allowed to indoctrinate them.
Let Omar pray, let Jacob say the pledge for his father who was sent to Poland, and let Tim hold Rob's hand, or Lisa Maria's.
Just do not ever try to sell the idea that a public educator has any right or mandate to have any say over any of this, beyond maintaining order and discipline in the classroom.

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They have polio and shingles to worry about.

Things have been downhill ever since. We had thousands of people on the site back then.

Children do not belong to the state nor should be subject to the ideological whims or perversions of "educators".

Okay, tyrant

Okay, tyrant

No.

Get one!

Only when it's called out.