As much as I hate cheaters, I think this is way too harsh.
It seems to be a popular idea to trash the persons reputation & property if they cheat on you or upset you.
Obviously you have never been cheated on. I believe they are allowed to act however they want because they were the ones who stayed faithful while the other person went behind their back. And you can absolutely trash their reputation because they deserve to be labeled a cheater, would you want them to cheat again? At least people now know that they are cheaters and will be warned before, potentially, getting hurt.
Not that it makes a difference, but I have been cheated on by a man for nearly 2 years (in the military and away a LOT so he hid it all until one of the women contacted me).
Please explain how cheating on someone allows you to destroy all of someone's property?
What if I felt as strongly about someone lying in a relationship as I do about cheating? Am I allowed to destroy their stuff?
What if we had a fight and I was annoyed? Am I allowed to destroy their stuff?
I understand your point because it hurts more than words can describe when you first hear about the betrayal, but you do not own their possessions and as such, no right to give them away.
You can actually be prosecuted for this and be made to reimburse the other party for doing this (in Australia at any rate).
I've been in a few messed up relationships like that and as much as I wanted to do something I thought about it and I couldn't bring myself to do it because as much as they hurt me I felt that I wouldn't want anybody to feel like this so I always try to talk it out before I take it into my own hands
It seems to be a popular idea to trash the persons reputation & property if they cheat on you or upset you.
Please explain how cheating on someone allows you to destroy all of someone's property?
What if I felt as strongly about someone lying in a relationship as I do about cheating? Am I allowed to destroy their stuff?
What if we had a fight and I was annoyed? Am I allowed to destroy their stuff?
I understand your point because it hurts more than words can describe when you first hear about the betrayal, but you do not own their possessions and as such, no right to give them away.
You can actually be prosecuted for this and be made to reimburse the other party for doing this (in Australia at any rate).