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· 10 years ago
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Maybe don't be dumb and spend that much on her in the first place?
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bluntman
· 10 years ago
If he can get it back , fuck it then
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guest
· 10 years ago
What a useless thing to do. His ego is hurt. Good for her. Sounds like a douchebag
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deleted
· 10 years ago
or a guy that do it right. if someone f*ck with your emotions, they deserve it
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guest
· 10 years ago
You're allowed to turn down someone's marriage proposal, and you're not allowed to act like a baby when it happens. If you do, you simply weren't ready to be married in the first place.
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deleted
· 10 years ago
if someone say he love you (and dont do it really), and use your cash to get stuff for free.. And use you for his troughts.. It fair to "act like a baby"
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missraven
· 10 years ago
If you love someone enough to marry them, you aren't going to send them an invoice for 185k. Wanting to get the money for the ring back, sure, that I understand. But that is ridiculous. Maybe the woman just wasn't ready to get married? Or she was afraid of commitment, because she's had bad experiences in the past? How do you know she ever said she loved him? How do you know she was using him? It's quite possible that she tried telling him that she didn't want this stuff, and he insisted, thinking she was in love with him until she finally turned him down more bluntly. People are sometimes that delusional. You don't know a thing about this woman, except that she said no. You don't know why. It doesn't matter why, because it is not okay to act like that just for being turned down. If you buy flowers for someone and ask them on a date, and they say no, guess what? That was /your/ risk, and it was a gift. It shouldn't be a bribe. It shouldn't be "oh, I'll give you these /if/ you go out
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missraven
· 10 years ago
with me. It's "I would like you to have these, because I am interested in you. Also because I am interested in you, I would like to invite you to dinner." If they say no, boo hoo, suck it the fuck up.
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guest
· 10 years ago
She's not really obligated to marry him
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guest
· 10 years ago
No, but that much money is not a normal amount to spend on a girl. She was obviously taking advantage of the situation otherwise she would have said "No I can't accept these expensive things because I don't love you". She could technically be sued for fraud.
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guest
· 10 years ago
You can't assume she was taking advantage of him, considering we only know the title of the article and not really what happened. Plus no one can force you to buy something and if she had I bet you he would't have stayed in a relationship with her. And you have a right to say no in a relationship, even if you do love the person you always have a right to say no.
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missraven
· 10 years ago
You have no idea what their relationship was like. It's completely possible that they were together for 10 years. That amount could include every meal, gas, chocolates, flowers, gifts, any time they spent renting a house or apartment together. It's possible that she loved him, and fell out of love. It's possible she's afraid of marriage, or doesn't think she (or they) are ready. He chose to spend money on her, like the latest guest said. Even if she said "sweetie, could you get me that new Ferrari?" he could say no, just as easily as she could say no to anything he gave her. Even easier, in fact. Because it's possible that she tried to refuse, and he insisted she take that stuff.
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