Well, we always tell kids 'don't you want to do this instead of this?' and question their actions, and its like this one post about a boy who wanted to wear pink flats, but then his parents 'friends' started making negative remarks about him. The kids thought it was fine, but what I'm trying to say is that it may just be the adults that turn them judgemental. Sort of like repeatedly swearing in front of a learning toddler, they'll start to think it's ok. But then again, we all view people in a different way, even at a young age.Sorry for the long reply.
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