Winning your virginity back

its okay pikalar its more special if you wait :)

Yeah I'm planning to be a virgin for a long time lol.

Pikalar. I'm the same only I'm 15. I have a boyfriend and we haven't kissed yet. When one of my friends asked why not and I didn't reply. I don't think he realized that maybe I'm not that type of person. I don't need physical or ultra close love

Don't worry pikalar, i'm 18 and the same. It doesn't make you a loser. ;)

When the time comes, the time comes. itll happen when its meant to. :3

I was a virgin until my early 20's, and look how I turned out!

Pikalar! I am so happy I'm not the only one. I'm a loser as well, I've never kissed anyone (by choice as well).

I'm the same and I'm almost 21.

Good for you guys. There shouldn't be pressure to have sex by a certain age, and it doesn't make you less for waiting. I was married (at not quite 20 years old) before I did.

Don't feel bad about waiting, it's better to wait to do it with someone you like and care about instead of doing it because of pressure.

well maybe it's better to wait because, as you get older you get wiser and you get to know more about men and women, so at that time there will be a good chance for you to choose the right person, and your first kiss will be special because that kind of love is special :).

that's me i just forgot to log in

I'm 18 and never even had a girlfriend or held hands. What is this kissing you speak of?

Saras may I ask what gender you are? It doesn't make a difference either way but I was just curious

I am male.

Iamateen10, agreed! But i'd be nice if I could get a kiss before I die. Lol. & saras, for some reason I always thought you were a girl. Lol.

A lot of people do. Maybe it's the name, they think it's sara or sara's. But it's saras. :)

Yeah I think that's what it is! Well, at least now I know (:

Yeah. That's always been my way of thinking, I'm glad there are others who understand. (: Saras!!! I am so coming to see you one day.

waiting is a bad idea. Sex is fun, the earlier you start, the more you will get.

don't be a whore guest. They should be happy however they are.

It's unfair to call guest a whore just because they know sex is fun. Just cause you wait doesn't make you better than anyone else. All it does is make you a virgin for longer

you're right, but telling us to that waiting is bad is uncalled for.

You're right the wording could have been better

well pikalari i do believe that everyone is meant to be with someone else, and i have heard people say "i'm not good looking no one will ever love me", and i used to say that too, but as years passed i knew that the outside look doesn't really matter, when i look myself in the mirror i only focus at the things i like and i see myself as a pretty girl and that makes me confident and trust me confidence is really sexy. If you have a strong and good personality everyone will want to hang out with you, and there will be someone who will love you for who you are. I know that because i usually fall in love with guys that aren't really good looking but they have a good sense of humor and for my opinion that makes them sexy and i guess the same goes for the girls i mean you can be funny and charming at the same time and that's better than just being a model and at the same time a boring person because beauty soon or later will fade away and all that will be left is your personality :)

And this goes to all of you, you have to love yourself before you can love another person.

I agree with guest that sex is loads of fun, but not that waiting is bad; you guys can all do what (or who) you want.