More people should do that and have those scum of what they consider themselves as a husband or wife lose what they are risking most their whole family
Its not about being a good parent, but i look at it as more of a selfishness because thats the father/mother of your children who knows how long they have been together they got married for a reason if you were going to do thag you shouldn't have married you can predict wheather you will cheat or not by the way you are when they aren't around and how you think about the person in your head what you say about them to your self
The children now have to go on knowing their mom/dad cheated and got divorced all because of what coulda been temptaion
But this is only if the partner was good to the cheater if it was an abusive or bad relationship with constant battles between them is a different story
I say think of the children before you think with your genitals
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I'm pretty sure you can't predict you're gonna cheat. It depends on a lot of things that change with the time. And of course you have to think to the children. It's the responsability of every person who decided to become a parent. However, you can't judge the ability of a mother or a father to raise and love her/his children by the way they behave with their partner. They may be hawful lovers but wonderful parents.
Divorce or separate. Don't betray. You're a selfish horrible human being if you are going to play with someone's feelings. That hurtful feeling of betrayal will never go away. I would rather know my spouse wants to end it than find out the hard way. Children grow up and realize that one parent never cared enough about their family to be honest.
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Betrayal is not the problem. In my point of view, the relation between lovers has nothing to do with parenting.
The children now have to go on knowing their mom/dad cheated and got divorced all because of what coulda been temptaion
But this is only if the partner was good to the cheater if it was an abusive or bad relationship with constant battles between them is a different story
I say think of the children before you think with your genitals