It never said they were friends. Maybe they feel it would be too awkward to randomly tell a (almost)stranger that their wife is cheating on them. Plus its (semi)anonymous so they don't have to answer the inevitable question of "Well how do you know?" or always be known to the guy as "that person that ended his marriage"
Yes, the 3rd party ended the marriage. Beautiful logic, there.
Also, it's better to answer "the inevitable question", because what is a router name without evidence?
I didn't say it was logical, but it is a natural response for a lot of people. Ever heard the saying "don't shoot the messenger"? Its because people get mad at the bearer of bad news, even though its not that person's fault. Whether its because it ruined their obliviousness to the situation and their happy little world or the person is just now always associated with the bad thought or whatever, it doesn't matter.
Its not saying they were part of the affair that ended the marriage or actually had a direct correlation with the marriage falling apart. Its just saying they are associated now with the ending of the marriage. If you don't think that would affect the future relationship of the 2 people your nuts.
I'd do more then just the router. I'd mail a letter, but only if there is actual proof, not just speculation or gossip or even odd behavior.
I really wish one of my ex-husbands coworkers or friends would have told me he was cheating. It really hurts to find out that your significant other been unfaithful, but that people i knew and trusted said nothing when they knew what was going on, that was just another punch in the gut.
Also, it's better to answer "the inevitable question", because what is a router name without evidence?
Its not saying they were part of the affair that ended the marriage or actually had a direct correlation with the marriage falling apart. Its just saying they are associated now with the ending of the marriage. If you don't think that would affect the future relationship of the 2 people your nuts.
I really wish one of my ex-husbands coworkers or friends would have told me he was cheating. It really hurts to find out that your significant other been unfaithful, but that people i knew and trusted said nothing when they knew what was going on, that was just another punch in the gut.