She's probably looking for a "bad boy" who will treat her badly, so she can complain about how rough she has it. why DO so many women pass on the nice guys, in favor of the dirtbag?
I think you guys don't understand, they want someone like them but with a connection. There can be someone exactly like the love of your life but that doesn't mean you'll love them as much. With love there has to be a connection and there's not always a connection with everyone.
And if she doesn't like you she doesn't have to date you. That's how dating works. How would you feel if you were about to pop the question and they said they didn't actually love you but they thought you were a sweet guy ?
I'd leave. Immediately. If she doesn't feel the same way, then It is excruciating to be around someone who doesn't appreciate me the way I think I should be. It's cowardice to stick around, expecting things to suddenly change.
By leaving, maybe she will realize what she lost and come looking for me. Probably she won't, because she is too thick to realize what she lost. Either way, I am better for having walked.
And I have a better chance at finding someone who cares for me the way I care for them.
And if she doesn't like you she doesn't have to date you. That's how dating works. How would you feel if you were about to pop the question and they said they didn't actually love you but they thought you were a sweet guy ?
By leaving, maybe she will realize what she lost and come looking for me. Probably she won't, because she is too thick to realize what she lost. Either way, I am better for having walked.
And I have a better chance at finding someone who cares for me the way I care for them.