I think Stream is saying that if you don't have certain qualities that the person you're looking for HAS to have, you can end up with someone who you do not find yourself attracted to and they'll just walk all over you. Some people will make you clean the house and cook the food, even though you both work long days, because you don't demand a partner who treats you right and equally.
What does personal choice over own body hair have to do with willingness to contribute to household chores and the relationship? Maybe you should use some introspection to consider WHY you think hair is unattractive.
Some people like it. Some people don't. It really shouldn't be a problem when they want someone who's shaven. If they tell you it's ugly, that's wrong, but don't be mad when they won't date you because they don't like it.
Length of modern human history without women shaving: 200,000 years
(Cited from nhm DOT ac DOT uk)
Length of time women have been shaving: 100 years
(Cited from mentalfloss)
Now you tell me which is the trend.
why does it bother people so much? Armpit hair is natural, it's not "dirty" if you're hygienic. I prefer my pits shaven but honestly, women who don't aren't really gonna even go for guys who can handle that kind of change so relax guys. If you don't want to be with a woman with armpit hair, you don't have to. And if you do, do you. It's just hair. You're really going to tell women what to do with their bodies because you're eyes don't like it? That's childish. Who gives a shit. Please, redirect your passion onto more pressing issues. It devastates me seeing such uproar around something as petty as armpit hair and so little passion for real issues. Stop trying to tell people what they should and shouldn't do with their bodies.
Nice piece of "protection"!
Bitch I don't want my boyfriend to think I'm turning into Chewbacca, I'm shaving for his sake
(Cited from nhm DOT ac DOT uk)
Length of time women have been shaving: 100 years
(Cited from mentalfloss)
Now you tell me which is the trend.