How can someone hurt your feelings when your feelings come from you?

So, all the people getting offended by things and all the people getting butthurt by those who are offended and blaming each other only have themselves to blame

"if a child is born deaf, dumb, and we cannot do anything, and the parents are willing, the child should be put to eternal sleep." Osho
"homosexuals should be given different localities. They can live in their own world, in their own way, and be happy, but they should not be allowed to move in the wider society, spreading all kinds of dangerous viruses." Osho

praise my goat and c4

But but but...doesn't the very fact that you put this up prove that somebody else said or did something that affected you to the point of being incapable of ignoring it and having to put up an image about it? Because that's really all this says. "It upsets me that other people get upset about things that don't upset me, and goshdarn it if I'm not going to show it upsets me somehow."

Y'all really get whacked backwards about this stuff, don't you?

Meaning although other individuals are involved in how we feel and what emotion arises from us, whether in good times or bad, it is really up to us.. we let ourselves be sad, regretful, angry. Or we let ourselves be happy, calm, nonchalant. This is what you mean? x